Relationships  Discussion Forum

hello,

I was married 3 years back and now staying in a non-english speaking country. have a daughter of 2 years. My problem is that i am unable to find a job, even a very low salary job. I feel very bored up and i have to much of time from morning 10 to evening 6, i just sit infront of computer watching movies.

My husband is very reserved, he doesn' t like me mingling with some indians who are around us. He sits with laptop with hours togather or chat in phone with his sibblings or friends. Else, he does all stuff for me like, shopping, taking little one to park, buy what all i ask. he has much love and affection for me. Plays with little one for more then 1 hour in morning and night. no problem on his side.

but the thing that irritates me is his reserved nature and shy feeling. He returns　from office, asks me only one question, that is ' what did u do today' . I cannot expect him to talk another word to me. I too did many things to make him shares his days experience, feelings with me, but in vain.

I too followed his path, being silent all day. he never mind, tells he is happy as usual. I am feeling too lonely because of this. I am happy with lovely husband and great in-laws and little angel. But this loneliness is killing me. i want to go and mingle with others, welcome others to home. but he wont like it.

Only　thing that can help me is getting a job. but it too is delaying like anything, which is pushing me to much irritating, emotional, angry person. Do anybody do work from home. If it is possible, can i have some tips, please share some details about it. I need help to kill much time, and do somthing profitable. please comment. Amrita replied. if u can' t find paying job...why don' t u try some volunteer work...or try taking some classes...something u like..art dancing cooking...etc..or learn the language of the country u r in. Also I think u need to have a conversation with u' r husband...explain to him that he gets his dose of outsiders at work, but u need a social life...why is he so agaist Indians?? What about natives of that country...someone must be speaking english. When u take u' r daughter outside to play there must be other mothers with their kids...u could get friendly with them.
Sweetheart...u need to take the steps to make this lonliess go away before it starts affecting u' r relationship with u' r family.
All the best