Name: Chandra
hey guys,
so i kept you updated with the events...last thing was when my mom talked to my husband, and he spoke a bit on edge with her. she at least noticed how his mannerisms are, and if he could talk to her that way, than she could only imagine how he talks to me.
a day or two ago, my mom talked to my fil, he was calm, nice. apologized for his son' s behaviour. although that was great and all, he owes my mom a HUGE apology. also, he indirectly disrespected my dad as well, sort of making fun of his line of work. again, another HUGE apology. more then just that....he needs to rub his nose in their feet. i was furious when my mom told me these things!!! i was like..that is it..what are you even supposed to say to a man like that. how could i spend the rest of my life with him? but they were calm. the fil told my mom, that his son regreted what he said, and he was sorry...and i was like....why isnt he saying it himself!
anyway..i talked to the fil too. and he was really nice and calm with me too. very weird. he kept saying stuff like, me and his son fight too much on the phone and stuff. and i told him, i wasnt saying a word to him. he would email me and say things like, we dont talk, what kind of marriage do we have etc. so that was why i called him, on valentines day. and its the same thing everytime.
then my dad talked to the fil....he insisted on talking to my dad for some reason. and my dad said the same thing to him, that his son is just plain rude. he yelled at me, my mom and insulted my dad.
everyone keeps telling me, dont worry about them, just let things go for now. but i dont think they realize, that this had been going on for a month now, and nothing is getting better, its actualy getting a lot worse. any everyone says, stay happy for the baby, dont worry about anything else. how easy is that when you hear that your husband wants a divorce and ur sitting here, 6 mths pregnant?!!?