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Miscarriage and Child Loss:Misscarriage without any reason
2007-05-09
Name: shruti



I had a misscarriage one year back at 7th week. I started bleeding like perioed and the doctor advised t do D&C. I had indergon that. After that we waited for six months and now we r trying six last six months with no success. My periods are regular. I had undergone all the tests after m/c like hormons, thyroid, diabetis etc. All are normal. Uterus ultrasound is also normal.I am worried about my fertility. Does misscarriage affect fertility. Please provide me information on this.
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2007-08-24
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Anonymous Name: jyoti
Subject:  devastated



I had a miscarriage last month and I am completely upset. I had just been to India and discovered to my wonderful surprise that I was pregnant. Everything was alright and my hubby was coming to get me back from india but then on the day he landed I came to know that I had lost it.I just felt dead. I had quit my job the minute I learnt about the happy news and I wanted to give it all even my life. At this time I am so lonely I never did well career wise even though I have a masters degree, my inlaws were so nasty to me and I have always had a tough life growing up never had any emotional support.somehow at this point I just wanted to die, somehow I survived because of my husband who was there for me and took care of me by giving me medicines and being there by my side and not blaming me. I had a D and C last month and I want to try again, how long should I wait? Will I become pregnant again? somehow I cannot bear to continue being happy untill I am pregnant again. I know so many girls who never take care of their children they just leave them with their parents or inlaws from month 1... these woman have normal pregnancies! somehow i am broken. I have a friend (no more a friend) whose mother used to show off all the time about her daughter and constantly compare me with her. I had a simple low profile wedding compared to her daughter and she showed off so much but my hubby is more educated( educated abroad) and is placed abroad compared to my friend' s hubby who is in indian company though abroad but I have never ever shown off. But her mother would try every effort to tell us that her short puney daughter is better. I lost my dad when I was very young but people fail to realise my hard work and pain..somehow I turned out very attractive and smart..I guess she is just jealous. Now this girl has a successful pregnancy and has a son and her mother has started bleating. I have just closed down on all people. I sometimes feel god keeps punishing same person again and again. I just want a healthy baby probably a baby girl though I have no preferance..I just need a child that' s all. My doctor says everything is ok and asks me not to worry but I am scared and I hope things work out for me.
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2007-05-11
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Anonymous Name: RIA
Subject:  miscarriage



Shruti
As i had same prob. miscarriage at 14th week and D&C done .So posting this message. U get ur laproscopy or HSG done b' coz some times tube gets blocked after M&C. I was also told to do laproscopy . Enquire about this from ur doctor. As ur period is regular so u should have concieved by this time.

RIA
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2007-05-10
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Anonymous Name: K.Radha
Subject:  time & patience



Miscarriage doesn' t affect your fertility as a rule but stress can. If having another child is a major issue in your life you might want to take a step back and refocus on other things... Seeing as all of your tests have come back normal it is safe to assume that things are physically fine for you to conceive. It can take some months of trying before you' ll fall pregnant so just make the most of each day. Also try reposting this message in the TTC boards as you' ll find many people there that are able to give you replies with more appropriare and relevent information. All the best
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