A miscarriage or loss of a child can be one of the most emotionally disturbing experiences of a parent. Share your thoughts and experiences with other parents who have faced a similar situation and see if they can help you cope better. Olivia replied. Hi there. I am so sorry to hear about what you have been through. Infertility can be a curse. People can go through a lot because of it. I hope that you stay strong and that ypu don't lose hope. Because i am sure that everything i will turn out just fine. Trying consulting a fertility doctor. Maybe IVF can help you out. My pryers are with you. Best of luck. neha replied. Hello! I can understand your story. Infertility really is the curse which converts a live person into the corpse. I am deeply depressed to read about your condition. For ten years I am working for the welfare of women. I have four agencies who work for the rights of women. Some cases or probably 60% of cases are due to infertility. It is the feeble condition of society. They cannot understand that infertility is not the women fault. They blame the women and it is totally mental torture for her. We are trying to resolve this problem but still, we are failed. It is due to people thinking. They think in their own way. They are old people and have a narrow mind. This situation can only be changed when people change their way of thinking. This will only be possible when they get awareness about this. I am trying with my team by organizing the session, conferences in villages and prohibited areas. we set our goals to change the thinking of people. After this, they will able to think about the solution of infertility rather than making it a big problem. So I also advised you to be relaxed and don’t think any more about this thing. All will be good my dear best of luck!!!! jyothi replied. i loss my child in 7th month because of fibroid.fibroid is located in lateral wall of uterus.i took full bed rest in my pregnency as doctor suggested.they told me u got child no problem.but i loss my child after the delivery.my child lived 4 days.these 4 days she is in medical observation.i can see my child only.doctors suggested don' t touch the baby she get infection that' s why i saw my child only.after 4 days she is not.i felt very sad.because i am waiting for my baby to see.after this situation now i am trying for conceiving.but the doctors told me to remove the fibroid first,please suggest me how to remove this fibroid any doctor specialized in this to remove the fibroid in Hyderabad,i hear dr.lakshmi in global hospitals was specialized to remove fibroid very safely if anyone know this please help me give me the suggestions if any one in Hyderabad.i am waiting for reply.because i lose my first baby.i can see other baby' s i feel so much pain if my child in this situation what i do if she' s laugh,cry,trying to talk all these are in my mind please help me. Vini replied. I still remember the day i realised that iam pregnant.It was the happiest day of our life. I was married for 5yrs and this news that i was waiting for every single month. My due date as per the DR was 5 May 2009. I always felt that my baby would see this wonderfull world and be with us on 2nd May as it was my paretns wedding anniversary. I went down to my parents home on 1st april. Had my regular check up every week on thursdays and all the test resulted to be normal. On April 23rd (thursday) went down for my check and the Dr informed that the baby is very happy inside and would take atleast another week. On the way back went down to purchase items for my baby as per the list given by the Dr as after a week we wld have to rush to the hospital any moment. I could see and feel my baby in every item I purchased. The next day (Friday 24th April) in the evening my uncle and aunt came, we were busy laughing and when they were about to leave my uncle informed that he feels that I would deliver the baby in the next 24-48 hrs. I took it as a joke and as soon as they left after an hour i could feel some vaginal fluid. I told my mom and younger brother that we better rush to the hospital as I felt that my water bag broke. I took a hot shower and rushed to the hospital. They check and informed that I would go into labour soon and would deliver the baby by next day afternoon or evening. I was soo ecxited to see my baby. I could not sleep the whole night and at about 3am had slight labour pain. My morning 8 the pain was intance but as per the Dr the dilation by 5cm and the babies head was still up. She informed that we would wait for some more time and if the babies head would not come in the coreect position would go for C-sec. I did nto care if it was normal or C-sec, I just wanted my baby in my hand. At 9.30AM when they check the dilation was 10cms and the babies head was in the correct position and at 10.50AM on 25th April my baby boy was born. I saw my baby was a boy and the Dr rushed my baby out of the labour room without informing me abything. I waited thinking that they would clean my baby and get my baby back soon. In 15min my gynac came and informed that my baby did not cry, but there is nothing to worry as they are trying their best. I thought that there cld be some complication but never occured to me that I would loose my baby. After 45 min i saw couple of Dr entering the labour room and i could feel something really bad news coming up. They said that my aby did not cry still and he is not respoding to any medication. They brought me out frm the labour room and after couple of hours my brother came up informing that the condition of my baby is critical and even if we get our baby his brain is dead and he would never be like a normal baby. I took all the courage I had to go see my baby in the NICU. He was a big baby of 3.1kg, fair, chubby and looked exactly like my hubby. My hubby was not there with me that time as he was in coimbatore and i was in pune. He was blue in colour with tubes in his mouth and nose. I could feel the pain he was going through. I could not bear it any longer and gave the permission for the Dr to go ahead with whatever they wanted to do. My baby left all of us in tears and sadness at 2.45pm. The priest was called from the church and he was cremated that very evening. My husband could not see our baby and he did not want to see him too as he would not be able to handle the situation. My husband reached Pune that very night and he was a great support for me. I asked the Dr to send me back home as I could not stay in the hospital any longer with all the babies crying around me. Even now when i hear a baby crying I get shivers all over my bosy and close my ears. i cannot bear it. I named my baby as NOAH. There has never been a single day after that I have not cried for my baby. I do feel like going back to the graveyard and getting him back to our life.He was an angel send by God into our lives and God took him back from us. I pry to God everyday and I have confidence in HIM that HE would return my baby back to me. Iam waiting for that day gus replied. Hi, my fiance and I are 4 weeks pregnant. The last few days she has been complaining of feeling bloated and very gassy. Today we went for a two mile walk and the symptoms got worse about a mile into the walk. She thought that she just had to go to the bathroom. When we got home she used the bathroom and noticed that she started bleeding very lightly. As an hour progressed the blood got darker and ran more. We went to the doctor for a blood test and her hormone level was 88. We came home and the bleeding continued and the cramping got worse. I took her to the hospital emergency room where she was seen by the doctor and given an ultrasound. They said the ultrasound did not show anything because its to early. I am very worried as is she. Is it common to bleed during in the 4th week of pregnancy? Does it mean that she is having a miscarriage? If it is not a miscarriage what do you think that it is? implantation? Twins? pritee replied. hi all :

within 6 months of marriage i accidentaly conceived ... though nervous we were happy ! but lots of un forceen things happened & within 2 months i miscarried !!

cant tell how i felt BLANK ... EMPTY. being at home only made it worst. it was 17 July 2004 i got operated ... it today i remember this date each year thinking how old my child would have been today !!!

after 2 years luckily i conceived .... and have a child today. but always remember my first !!

i can only say \" there is always hope\" arpana replied. Hi, I am 7 moths pregnant.Before this I lost my 7 yr young son in an accident.Now,I have my own doubts on my parenting abilities.Can anyone tell me how to grieve & welcome another child at the same time? K.Radha replied. Please start a new thread rather than posting your concerns or enquiries here as the forum users tend not to check this particular thread as it is for the mods to use. The last thing anyone here wants is for someone to be waiting for some supportive words that might not come as we forum users tend not to check this thread as I have mentioned. appu replied. I was 3 months pregnaant and i lost my baby last week...We were so shocked..I lost him/her becos the baby didnt grow after 6 weeks...I have done D&C..At the time of pregnancy i was having big tummy like 6 months...even though it ws 3 mnths only.now i need to reduce my tummy ..wt type of exercise cn i do and when?we r ping for another baby after 3-4 mnths..pls advice Renuka replied. I did post a comment a few weeks ago in the fetal development section. We have been married for 7 years now and it never happened , as a miracle it happened when i missed my periods in August . During the first ultra sound the doctor said he couldnt see the baby' s viability, wanted us to wait for few more weeks and gave me progesterone and folic acid, but it was 2 days back when we went to the doc he said it was a blighted ovum there and he suggested we go for a suction evacuation immediately next day. Now I am back from the hospital the whole world has come to a standstill i have evne resigned my job and feel so let down. I feel guilty and useless, i want to know how soon i can conceive next