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dear gg,
do you know that having a big family is a fashion that is in???and do you know that people are even ready to adopt(or buy????)children to make their family big.did you hear about angelina jolie and the like??
yes,it is true.people like me or you wont understand.we are from simple families and would like to have a small family and provide them the best we can.but who are very...rich want to show that providing children is not an issue for them.see,they are rich.they can provide their children.whether they care,give time and love....i dont know.
let me clarify that i dont mean offence to any lady who has posted earlier in this board.
i absolutely love children and if someone plan a big family(with biological or adopted children)just because of their love for children,there is nothing as great as that.may god bless them.but those who want to show off.....
sss michelle replied. Yes in india too most poor man have more kid if I go by the figure( only two amongst 5 in rich is having more than one child on the other hand 4 out of 5 have more than 3 kids in case of poor people) . Most of the Muslims are poor in India and have more than 5 kids on an average . Rich people have rarely more than one kid than why this debate. Whether you want to have 1 or 100 none of the business . Do what ever deemed fit to your life and health. Noorjahan asked a simple question and everybody is acting in different fashion. I have seen people who are rich but do not want to have kids because it will obstruct their career . so different people different opinion no question of rich having more poor having less .
michelle
sss replied. hi whatsoever,
this was exactly what i meant to say.for the poor,having more children shows their unawareness.i didnt say that everyone having more children are showing off.also i didnt write for offending particularly suhani,noor or any one for that reason.why would i?do i have anything against them?no...
and how can you say that those kids are better now after adoption.do we know how will they take it when they know their identity.dont you think they would have been more happy if they were in their motherland and with someone from their own culture adopting them.atleast they could have lead a normal life.see,these things are subjects for a big discussion.those children had no say in their life.now they have to live as a celebrity' s son or daughter and their roots and culture are lost for them. whosoever replied. I couldnt stop myself from commenting ... You mean rich have more children to show off they are rich ??
What would you say abt poor in our country who have multiple kids ? what are they trying to show off ??? :)

One or many kids or no kids at all has \" Nothing to do\" with rich or poor or simple. Its a personal choice and personal belief !!!

And as suhani said celebreties are diff ..esp hollywood celebs .. Still I find angelina jolie gr8 to have adopted multi cultural kids. Whatever could be her reason name or fame or genuine love .. The children for sure have got a better life !!!

suhani replied. Sorry I even I do not mean to offend you here . But the way you people taunt others is worth giving a thought. Why be judgmental and criticize others. By the why small family is more trendier and people are still hesitating to reply if they have more than two kids. This is not the question of being rich , poor or fashionable . Angelina jolie-brad, Nicole-keith, Pamela-rock, britney-kevin they are the celebrities and should not be compared with we simple people
We are on the boards to share our joys, sorrows, grief, fears etc. not to point out fingers on each other. Going through a knife is itself a horrible experience but you are ready to endure the pain for the ultimate gift in the form of a baby. Only 10% job is completed main task is raising them spending sleepless nights, seeing them in pain when they are ill, or hurt themselves not only once but countless time .
The way gg replied to Noor was quite offending and absurd and might have hurt her feeling. but one should not critise her either as she might have faced tough time raising a kid. You have said that lady “ that lady has some name Suhani.
Anyway enjoy life to the fullest without any regret
Suhani