tell me how much time it takes to concieve?im being trying since 3 months but no success.i have gone for a abortion in sep last year.v started trying from jan feb....im very tense.first child was easy to concieve,now when v try for second it takes time.im very tense hope im not infertile???should i meet the doctor.i dont know what to do? K.Radha replied. Lots of people find trying to conceive very frustrating because they think it is an easy thing to do. Couple that with your loss and the NEED most of us feel to try again and the anxiety doubles. Pregnancy doesn’t happen for lots of woman in the first month, or second or third and sometimes longer. There are times that it takes much longer. We know that there are people who accidentally become pregnant and we hear of this all the time. But getting pregnant is really a difficult thing, one that requires everything to be just right. It can be helpful to have the attitude that it won’t happen right away and you’ll probably find you' re to hang in there a lot longer without freaking that you are or could be infertile. Also remember infertility is not the same as sterility!!! With proper treatment almost all complaints can be solved. Three months is not really a very long time to have been trying, it' s been just 6 months or so since your abortion which might be having an effect on your fertility. Discuss this with your doctor so that they can do some tests to be sure that you' re ok physically and hormonally. Try to enjoy practicing to make a baby and I think everything will be ok very soon. Also check the TTC boards as they are your best options for advice when it comes to conception issues.