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2007-04-19
Name: asma



i am in my 11th week of pregnancy.. i had severe cramping in my 5th week and the doc advised immediate scan to rule out ectopic pregnancy and she has put me on progestrone. But suddenly this week i have developed this weird discomfort in on the left side of my tummy. it is not continous, but comes suddenly. i dont have any elder at home. so my moral strength has come down and i have this constant fear of undergoing a miscarriage. i know it is a bad thought but i am really scared. ladies could u please tell me if this was normal..
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2007-04-21
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Anonymous Name: K.Radha
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Dear Asma,

I have no idea what the pain you mention is but it is possible that you could be feeling some uterine cramping as the baby develops and grows. That is a fairly common complaint from a lot of women in the first trimester of pregnancy. Another thing to consider is constipation, that can cause cramping and it' s a problem for many woman in pregnancy. I googled like a demon and found no information of help. When do you next plan to see your doctor? I think that if you' re concerned you should see your doctor and let him examine you. Off the top of my head though I would say that what you' re describing is probably quite normal but it is better to see your doc and have your fears assuaged. All the best and enjoy your pregnancy
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2007-05-05
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Anonymous Name: asma
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Thanks a lot Radha, i am in the 14th week now and finished my first scan and i am doing well now.. the cramping also has subsided.
i feel soo much more normal now
thanks once again
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