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Name: Minish

I am an 26 year male living in small
room in a chawl
in pune with my aunt with her 19 year
daughter
(my fathers friends wife)12 years back
we both lost our families in an accident and started
living
together. she cares for me like a true
mother.Even I
Take her as my mother and her
daughter as my true sister.I work with an Shipping company
Now the problem is that since I live with
them in
very small room I am infected with lots
of lice in my
hair. My aunt is affected mentally for the incident
which occured in the past but still she
cares for me
and her daughter equally. Every sunday
after having bath she make me sit
outside our home in open chawl on a small stool.She sits
behind Me and
she starts picking nits and lice from my
hair. Then
she apply lot of coconut oil in my hair
and start combing my hair with a louse comb for
nearly 1 to
2 hour.there are lots people watching
this in the chawl and everyone stares at
me I feel embarased.I
just have to sit around and let my hair be combed
with lice/nit comb.If i refuse she starts
crying.Even
this is not enough she then puts
mogra/jui flowers/
Gajra in my hair with the help of a pin which i
should keep all the day.I just have to sit
at home with heavly oiled Hair and
wearing Gajras in my
hairs. She Also sends me out to buy
groceries and i have to go anyway in such
condition.This happens
every sunday and all holidays.I have
tried all
possible ways but in vain. i cannot leave
them alone at no possible cause. The problem is not
with the louse. she does that
even if i dont have lice in my hairs. The
lice comes
back again even after complete removal
as i stay with them. that seems to be ok. but the
main
problem is she openaly apply lot of oil
in my hair
and starts combing it with nitcomb and
make me were gajras which keeps hanging in my hairs
throughout the day.every where i go i
have to go
with heavly oiled hairs and flowers
(gajra) hanging
behind my head. she also insist me to accompany
her to visit some relatives home and i
have to obey
he,any how. She does that because she
used to do that with her
elder daughter whom she lost in that accident.
earlier she used to do that every day
but since i
made her understand that i cannot go
to work she
stoped doing it every day but do not compromise
that on any cost on sunday or any other
holiday Every Sunday or holiday, she
wakes up early and
go to the market and brings exactly 1
dozon of gajra 6 for my sister and 6 for me to
wear .As soon
as get ready she starts the proceedings
and on my
rejection she becomes nervious and
depressed. she says she feels good to do that and i
should not mind wearing it. ... I have no
idea what to do??.I
made her understand two days back
and she said
ok. she will stop doing this .To day is Sunday(holiday) and as soon as i came
out of the bath she
was waiting for me with fresh flowers/
gajras to
were, I smiled and quietly wore my
clothes and sat on the stool out side our house ready for Heavy
oiling and wearing Gajras. As usual she
came out
sat behind me, opened the oil bottle
poured lot of
oil on my head, The she started combing my hairs
with nitcomb and started killing the lice
she got
from it. The was already a group of
peoples in the lane and other womens
oiling and combing their hairs for lice. She nearly combed my hair
for around
an hour and a half. I told her thats
enough. Then
she applied some more oil on my hair
and combed it backward and made sure that my
hairs were
enough oiled and well combed. I was
getting restless so I told her that i was
waiting to wear
gajras.Hearing this she became so happy and she
soon stuck the hairpin on my backside
hairs and
hanged the entire 12 gajras which she
has bought.
( 6 for me and 6 for my sis) on my hairs.on
opposing why she used all of them on
me and nothing left for my sis, she told
me to go to the
market and buy it for my sister.she then
took me in front of the mirror and spread the
gajras on front
side of my both the shoulders and
asked me if i was
looking beautiful or not. I replied yes,
then she told me to go to the market to buy gajras for
my sister, all in vain i had to go to the
market wearing gajras
to buy gajras. I quietly left the home
after watching
my self in the mirror to the market .People were
staring at me but most of them were
used to
watching me wearing gajra but this time
i was
wearing 12 of them. As i asked the gajra seller girl to give me 6 gajras, she
was surprised to see me
and told me why shoud i buy more after
wearing
so many.I just smiled at her and told this
was not enough for me and wanted few more to
wear. she
laughed and asked me if i want her help
to were
those six and if she could pin those in
the bunch i was wearing. I felt embarrassed and told her that
they were for my sister and i went back
home gave the flowers to my aunt sat on the chair wondering what to do

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