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2008-01-23
Name: anusha



we are abroad for about 1.5 yrs, my husband is working in a quite gud company now here. my in-laws are in india. my husband has one sis and 2 bro. they are also in india only. now the issue is my in-laws stays there alone. not with my husband' s brothers. but my hubby is momma' s boy.
They are such a trouble makers, whenever they call us, there is a fight between us here. now the problem is my hubby wants to go back to india. his previous company calls him back.
if we are back, he wants to call his parents to stay with us. if that happens then his bro' s will start to visit often and im sure its a trouble to me. i feel that we can stay here for 2 more yrs and then go, atleast after a baby.
but he says since he had financial issues he came to abroad but otherwise he wants to go back. i say if in india we cannot save gud but here can.. he says he wants parents and not money. i donno what to do ? what shd i do now?

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2008-01-24
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Anonymous Name: Another Girl
Subject:  Best of Luck



Hi Anusha,

Just one thing to suggest. Try answering a question (not to anybody else, but to urself) \" What do u really want? Do u want to stay abroad permanently, away from family, or u just want to be there for a couple of years or so?\"

Comes the question of convincing... If u guys are planning a baby, then go to the website and see if the child gets citizenship by birth or not. Tell ur husband that India is good for u guys, but probably ur child is worth being a citizen of a developed country. Many countries give citizenship by birth, so check this at a website.

May be this is the best way to convince caz boys are boys... They will always do what they want.

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2008-01-23
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Anonymous Name: gg
Subject:  hi



ur ably right i thing u should stay there...ur husband is truly momma boy...we have many many such characters around us...my husband is not mamma' s boy but he is entire families boy...at times it irritates...
anyways...
i suggest dont tell him when to go or not to go...
expalin him ..that u have come here due to fin probs...right ...earning well for 1 . 5 years doesnt make any diff....to ur saving in todays world...n once u have a baby then 4get about saving ....
tell him since u have come abroad might aswell stay back for some years more..dont tell him that u want to go after u hv a baby....earn well when u are sure about ur finan status then go to india...in this way u will be able to give better life to your parents too...tell him in a nice manner...coz how many times he is going to play with his career like this...
i hope ur able to understsnd
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2008-01-23
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Anonymous Name: anusha
Subject:  Hi gg



Thanks for your reply. i understand and what you say is all right. i just want to explain this to my hubby but he is not understanding. he says it will not affect his career as he is going to his previous company only and the business is long lasting compared to the company he works now here.
i donno how to convince him, and his case is that if he decides something its very difficult to change him. iam so scared.
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2008-01-23
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Anonymous Name: gg
Subject:  hi



dont tell him u want to have baby here...since he is mammas boy he will want his mother to raise his baby...this is 4 sure...
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