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Single Parenting:how to answer todlers question
2010-10-18
Name: pallavi devkar



hi,
I have 2.5 yr old Baby Girl. we are seperated but case is going on in court. when my baby watching TV always now she ask questions about father of character in the TV whether is Cartoon or TV serials. like - where is her father, he don' t have father? She called my brother as Baba but before some days she say that he (my brother) is not my father. I am very afraid how to answer her question know she is serching for his Father & her father never came to now how was her baby? please reply
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2011-04-09
#1
Anonymous Name: vishal
Subject:  hello pallavi



hi pallavi this is vishal u can call if int on nine five six one nine six six six zero eight
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2011-04-09
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Anonymous Name: vishal
Subject:  hi



hello call on nine five six one nine six six six zero eight
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2011-04-09
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Anonymous Name: vishal
Subject:  dont worry



hi pallavi,
Iam vishal frm pune so i can understand its a v feeling situation 4 u and hope ur case gets resolved. So for time being u can tell ur kid as ur dad n mom is me i.e u and do dont give her time 2 think of those things just keep the kid busy in sme or other things k
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2010-12-18
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Anonymous Name: Manasi
Subject:  don´ t worry



please don' t worry. mi sudha ashyach situation madhun gele aahe. maza mulga 6 monthcha astana maza divorce zala. aadhi mala pan kalji hoti pan nantar kalala ki aapan mulana khup prem aani vishwas dila tar tyana tyancha baba lagat nahi. aamhi dogha milun khup maja karto, tyala ekta vatat hot mhanun mi ek mulgi adopt keli aahe aata amhi tigha khup dhamala karto. tevha don' t worry tu ekti nahis.
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2010-12-23
#5
Anonymous Name: Milli
Subject:  To Manasi



hI Manasi,
tuza post vachun khup bara vatla..
jagat apan ektech ase nahi ahot he kalala.
ata tuza mulga kevdha ahe? tu tyala kase mothe keles?ani tu swataha kay kartes he aikayla mala khup avdel,tujhya kadun inspiratin ghenya sarkhe ahe,ek mulgi adopt karun til asambhalne kharach kathin ahe,pan mala khup abhimaan vattoy tuza :)
nakki tujhi story share kar,jene karun amhi pan tujhay sarkhe brave hou ani aplya mulancha chan sambhal karu :)
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2010-12-18
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Anonymous Name: Manasi
Subject:  don´ t worry



please don' t worry. mi sudha ashyach situation madhun gele aahe. maza mulga 6 monthcha astana maza divorce zala. aadhi mala pan kalji hoti pan nantar kalala ki aapan mulana khup prem aani vishwas dila tar tyana tyancha baba lagat nahi. aamhi dogha milun khup maja karto, tyala ekta vatat hot mhanun mi ek mulgi adopt keli aahe aata amhi tigha khup dhamala karto. tevha don' t worry tu ekti nahis.
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2010-11-19
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Anonymous Name: Milli
Subject:  me too in a same boat :(



hi Pallavi,
i also have a 15 months old kido, he cannot speak yet but i get nervous when i think what will i ans him when i ask him abt his dad.
his dad is nowhere bother of him, just because he has visiting right he comes to meet my son once in a blue moon..i dont know how my son will react to the sitaution once he starts going to school, i dont want him to feel as if he is missing something, even i saty wid my parents, my dad and brother takes care of him but after all he has to face the fact.
i have decided to tell him the reality about his father and how careless he was, and is towards me and my son.
i just dont understand how m i going to handle this whole situation?..
hey, can we form a group if anybody is based in pune?
we can make friends meet, discuss, enjoy eat also can share our experiences.
anybody intrested pls do reply.
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2010-11-18
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Anonymous Name: vks
Subject:  single parent



kids ask ques whicha re dificult to explain to them mine one say mother has gone to become star and she will take care of them as they walk on road.
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2010-11-01
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Anonymous Name: Chavi
Subject:  Hi Pallavi



Where are you based. Im facing the same problem with my son who' s 3.5 and now started asking questions too. I have however been very honest with him throughout.
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