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need your suggestion, should i take a 2nd divorce, listed below things I had got in my marriage of 1 year
He never wanted to get married to me, kept on finding lame excuses
He was thrown from his job because of sexual harassment
He did not want to get married, only after he realized that he had no choice...and lot of my pressure he got married to me
I kept him forcing for job, and he diid not want too
He fought with me
He started convincing me to shift to C-14
He started hitting me
He drove me to suicide attempts
I stopped thinking about my son
He was never concern about my son
He used my computer, my house to chat with other woman
He never to took his business seriously , he use to sleep or be on internet
He use to hide is mobile from me
He use to prefer television than being with me
He left home couple of times but came back , because he had no where to go
He never took interest in my son even so he did not even remember him sometimes
He never felt that he has to work and give his family a better, life
He would always think about himself , how he looks, his absurd idea about his business, which he would not follow up at all,
He was too lazy, even to get up and go to work...
He mortgaged my golds , used my money however never utter a word to return it back to me ,,instead he would blame me , and say I was the one who mortgaged it for him, he never wanted too.
He still didnot want to do anything out of his life even though I was pregnant
Final decision of me leaving him on 14th August, did not make any difference in his life
He knew that I sold my house, so he with drew money from our joint account
He went to Nasik to become sponge on his friend now, not even bothered about his business
He would cleverly tell me not to break the FD for my son and than make me break it
He even used my bonus money to pay his loan
In short he never loved me and my son, and I and my son landed up on roads because of him
He was a bad example for my Son, he was lazy and did not have aim in life just big talks
Even now he blames me and others for his incapabilities , but does not want to work on it
He wants others to take care of his basic requirements and he would do small errands as time pass
He absolutely has no goal in his life, just wants to sit and cry I would not understand him ...and now I am scared that his creditors will come here and make my life miserable
His best friend and his business partner has kicked him out...probably they realized that he is worth nothing shashi replied. do u still need an answer? just read your message again n u would know what to do. vishal replied. hitanya,
I think u should leave him only on 1 single point or i ould have advised you to b wid him love him or make him understand but if the person takes you to have a sucide then no way get out b4 its too late rupinder replied. i really think so that u should not wait for any more time. becoz the person who want to change 1 year is enough for him but if he dont than for life long he will like that only. i m also in the same boat and i wait for 12 years that my hubby will change bt he dont want to change. so my suggestion is take the decision and do it. dont think about other people becoz u have to live ur life. n life is not easy today i realize it.best of luck.