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Name: saiprasuna

hii frnds,
we have planned my brother' s upanayanam in september of this month.we are from a traditional family and our function includes ear piercing and head shave.so my brother felt very shy, kept on postponing the ceremony.my father was atlast stubborn in confirming the ceremony in september of this year.after reading the message by arun i was also interested in making him appear as a girl.so i asked my mom to make him agree.my mom was also interested in this because he never agreed to wear a female dress even for a photo.so we made up our mind to do this to him.my father ordered him not to take hair cut since final xams as in the ceremony after head shave some part of the hair should be left at five parts of the head.now he is having hair upto shoulder length.
so it added more enthusiasm to us.
i said my mom that we wil pierce his ears now and the nose in the ceremony.but she was totally against me and said that ears should only be pierced in the ceremony.so atlast we decided to pierce his ears twice once now and in the ceremony second time.we covinced my brother saying that ear piercing in the ceremony would pain him a lot so it would be easy to pierce his ears in a parlour near by, he then agreed to pierce ears but wasnt ready to wear female dress.
on may 2 we went to the parlour and got his ears pierced.the woman their was very reluctant that a boy was entering her parlour.but she agreed to do it at night.so went there at 8 in the night.she was very skilled done it in five minutes.we went back home.my mother warned him that if no ear ring is placed in the ear the hole gets filled again.so with great reluctance he agreed to put on small ear rings.he saw himself in mirror with long hair and ear rings and got frustrated but was very cute in fact beautiful than me.so i pleaded him for a long time to put on my dress.i gave him my chudidhar he wore it reluctantly but was very cute.he is having summer holidays now so me and my mom played a prank with him we hid all his dresses in 2 suitcases and placed them in my neighbours house.after bathing this morning he was searching for his dresses but couldnt find them.then my mother gave him my dresses he was very angry but then we pulled out his towel.he ran back to the bathroom after an hour he agreed to wear my dresses.he finally agreed to be feminine all these holidays on the condition that on the day of his ceremony none of the relatives should be invited we said its okay.so finally my wish got ful filled.
the problems we are having are
1) he is having hair upto shoulder length only pony tail is not suiting him what hair style should i try?
2)should we pierce his ears again in other part of the ear in the ceremony??
3)my father is planning a trip to tirupati on june 13 is it good to shave his head before the ceremony?
4)i am very anxious in piercing my brother' s nose also will it be awkward??
5)my brother has thick eyebrows if i shape his eyebrows will they grow even more thicker??

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