Beauty & Grooming  Discussion Forum

hii frnds,
we have planned my brother' s upanayanam in september of this month.we are from a traditional family and our function includes ear piercing and head shave.so my brother felt very shy, kept on postponing the ceremony.my father was atlast stubborn in confirming the ceremony in september of this year.after reading the message by arun i was also interested in making him appear as a girl.so i asked my mom to make him agree.my mom was also interested in this because he never agreed to wear a female dress even for a photo.so we made up our mind to do this to him.my father ordered him not to take hair cut since final xams as in the ceremony after head shave some part of the hair should be left at five parts of the head.now he is having hair upto shoulder length.
so it added more enthusiasm to us.
i said my mom that we wil pierce his ears now and the nose in the ceremony.but she was totally against me and said that ears should only be pierced in the ceremony.so atlast we decided to pierce his ears twice once now and in the ceremony second time.we covinced my brother saying that ear piercing in the ceremony would pain him a lot so it would be easy to pierce his ears in a parlour near by, he then agreed to pierce ears but wasnt ready to wear female dress.
on may 2 we went to the parlour and got his ears pierced.the woman their was very reluctant that a boy was entering her parlour.but she agreed to do it at night.so went there at 8 in the night.she was very skilled done it in five minutes.we went back home.my mother warned him that if no ear ring is placed in the ear the hole gets filled again.so with great reluctance he agreed to put on small ear rings.he saw himself in mirror with long hair and ear rings and got frustrated but was very cute in fact beautiful than me.so i pleaded him for a long time to put on my dress.i gave him my chudidhar he wore it reluctantly but was very cute.he is having summer holidays now so me and my mom played a prank with him we hid all his dresses in 2 suitcases and placed them in my neighbours house.after bathing this morning he was searching for his dresses but couldnt find them.then my mother gave him my dresses he was very angry but then we pulled out his towel.he ran back to the bathroom after an hour he agreed to wear my dresses.he finally agreed to be feminine all these holidays on the condition that on the day of his ceremony none of the relatives should be invited we said its okay.so finally my wish got ful filled.
the problems we are having are
1) he is having hair upto shoulder length only pony tail is not suiting him what hair style should i try?
2)should we pierce his ears again in other part of the ear in the ceremony??
3)my father is planning a trip to tirupati on june 13 is it good to shave his head before the ceremony?
4)i am very anxious in piercing my brother' s nose also will it be awkward??
5)my brother has thick eyebrows if i shape his eyebrows will they grow even more thicker?? prem replied. your brother very lucky..im regret for didnt get sister like you. u ar really a good sister. Feminization is the best part of the message.hmm. anyway good luck for u ...i have 1 request . Can u b my sister?? nair replied. y u like long hair but?? shashank replied. saiprasuna
i m 18years old i am from a orthodox south indian family.my family members are planning for my upanayanam in a month time
my hair is 3ft long and is a bit thick thanks to my mom and my sister they oil my hair daily
i m being feminised for 2 months till nw
my sister oils my hair daily and puts a school girl hairstyle to me and i m being made to wear girls clothes.
can u plz suggest any hairstyle which is
suitable for long hair as i m being applied oil everyday with flowers put plz suggest any traditional hairstyles.
i would be a great help to me. akshata replied. saiprasuna,
your brother is so lucky to have a loving sister like you. he sounds so innocent and adorable. he was so cute when you pulled the prank on him. i am sure he would look so cute being feminine. i think waxing his legs, buttocks, genitals, chest, underarms, and arms is a great idea. his body will be baby soft and smooth and he will have a feminine look. make sure to wax him regularly. i agree with narayan. make sure he is naked during the headshave. then, he will be in a completely pure state. and i also think if he is bathed by girls, he will develop more respect towards women. akshara replied. dear saiprasuna
it is nice to hear that you are going to perform the upanayanam or ' sacred thread ceremony' of your brother and especially so since your going it to the traditional way.the significance of the ceremonies performed on the boy are very great.first and foremost ,ofcourse is the headshave.as u know the headshave makes the boy ' pure' and gives him physical and more importantly mental hygiene(ie free of bad thoughts).a tuft of hair is left which gives identity to the boy.next is the ear piercing which also improves health and makes the boy look very cute.for the earring ,go for traditional earrings which are well weighted and not the modern ones like hoops or hook.ofcourse you can make him wear any earring ,but after the ceremony.during the ceremony ie at the time his ears are pierced his ear lobes should have traditional earrings like a jhumka or a gimmiki made out of gold or if possible diamonds.

as the boy' s sister your duty does not end with the ceremony.you have to shave his head regularly,possibly once or twice in a week.you can use a shaver machine.you have to make sure he wears his earrings always.you can possibly ask
a goldsmith to create a lock for the earrings,so the wearer,ie your brother can never remove it on his own.also being his sis,you have total responsibility and control of him.so if he hesitates to have his nose pierced,you have to use force and make sure his nose is pierced atleast during the ceremony.also you have to take care of the boy' s sikha or kudimi by oiling it everyday etc.
a little fun along the way like feminizing him is cute and encouragable.so enjoy and all the best and keep us posted! saiprasuna replied. i and sai went to the parlour.sirisha aunty(parlour owner)recognised him after a long time and laughed at him a lot.then she said shaping his eyebrows would be a great idea. so i stood beside him and made his eye brows look great.even i coultd' nt think he is a boy.she was very interested in piercing his nose she said that the hole will be filled in a month or so.so i forced him to get it done.but he denied it.aunty was forcing,but we could do nothing.
i dont think it is a good idea to send him to a girls school.that would effect his studies.so we planned to shave his head in tirupathi on may 26.we are starting here on 24.my mother and father are also shaving their heads so he wont feel bad about this.as the ceremony is in september,he will have enough time to grow hair enough for the sikha.
he is having less hair on hands and more hair on legs.is it better to remove them by waxing or by using veet??
long skirts are suiting him a lot.short skirts are exposing his legs so he is bit uncomfortable. sanjana replied. dear saiprasuna
i am very glad that you are performing upanayanam of your brother in a traditional way.there are many hairstyles for him, from the bob cut,mushroom cut to center parted twin braided hair(school girl hair).ofcourse even if you pierce his ears now,you MUST pierce his ears during the ceremony and insert earrings in them.dont shave his head now as he wouldnt have enough hair that time to leave a proper shikha or the tuft of hair.nose piercing is rare but it is always better to do it and i am sure your brother will cute wearing a nose ring.no i dont think his eyebrows will become thicker.by the way you dint tell your brothers name. saiprasuna replied. my brothers birthday is on may 23.so we went to buy a birthday dress to him yesterday.so we for the first time took him out in female dress.he was very uncomfortable.but after some time he got very much used to it.i asked him to select himself a dress.we straight away went to a ladies show room and went to the ladies section.he chose a chudidhar and we paid the bill and left the showroom quickly.me and mom were very laughing in ourselves that he chose a female dress.half way in the journey he saw the dress again and found that he chose a female dress.he was very angry with himself ,i then convinced him and said that he had no other choice.
he is know some what obeying what all we are doing to him.but he is not happy.i think he is enjoying it but acting to be reluctant.
yesterday i have spent almost 3 hours on his hair to my shock his hair was lot longer than what i expected he didnt oil and comb it for long time so the hair was uneven and without a direction.i oiled his hair heavily and combed his hair backwards.to the biggest shocks his hair was almost 25 cms and crossing the shoulder by 7 cms almost.pony tail is okay with him.
it is great fun to tease him and put make up on him.he has very little facial hair so i removed them by threading.now he is looking very feminine.the problem is he has his reopening of school on july 1.if he doesnt have hair cut until then,he will definitely have mid length hair.then he will definitely be very feminine with long hair and pierced ears.and that too we have 3 more months after going to tirupati.so my father planned to go to tirupati on may 26 so that he will have enough time to grow his hair back for the ceremony.
so we have only ten more days to keep him female.so i am trying to enjoy these ten days.so i decide to shape his eyebrows this evening.but i am hesitating a bit.