Hi,

before 6 months, i had a miscarriage in 21 weeks it was a baby boy, as i was asked to be in bedrest rite from the time i conceived i was in complete bedrest, 21st week unavoidably i was forced to travel as we were relocating to bangalore and the next day i had miscarriage,cervical incompetence,cervics opened and water loss,and so they injected and killed my baby inside me and made it as a normal delivery...im still not out of that loss,,,every single nite ive been crying ,i was feeling him speaking to him cuddling him inside but i was not even able to c see his face ....nothing bad more than ths could happen in my life ...im not able to forget the black day in my life,,, now we are trying for past 3 months and nothing is happening very depressed ..pray for peace Reema replied. Hi Rathi my sincere prays are with you and your family just be positive and think of it in a positive manner as god will never give their children what is bad and he must have planned something good for you. All the best. Ram replied. Hi there madam same was my story even my wife two miscarriages but we fought with it and today we are blessed with a baby boy and we very happy with the child and our family is complete. Radhika replied. Hi dear feeling very sad and upset for you but there nothing to worry about it as its not all over, as you said you are trying from last three months and are not able to conceive I'm sure it will happen again very soon. Sujata replied. Hi there nothing can help its only you who can help yourself and come out of this pain please make your self so busy that all the negative come out of your head and there should be no place for all such bad thoughts. Simran replied. Hi dear you will have to forget all these things as this will not help you to be happy in future and if you want to be pregnant you should remove all the fear of loosing again and just be positive that's it. Shubham replied. Hello looking to your post feels that you have not done anything wrong its just destiny what has done wrong to you, please do not consider yourself the culprit as it was not done by you please stop thinking so much. Shivani replied. Hi dear please do not think so much as its you who is thinking so much that's why you are getting these thoughts and its only you who can come out of it no one can help you in this. Shivam replied. Hello mam its really sad story but trust me god is great and he must have plan something good for you, please have faith in god and let things change for you in the future you will have your own happiness trust me. Shika replied. What a painful thing to happen to a women, please be strong and relax and just think of the future as there is lot to come and also make your husband strong enough to fight against all odds. Seema replied. Hi Rathi look one thing is clear that you lost your child and it was an accident not done purposely so please try to forget the incident and focus on the future as it will not return as much as you think. Sarita replied. Hi dear I a really sad and can feel the pain what you are going through and will pray to god that please give you a baby so that you can come out of this pain and enjoy the life with your little one. Aruna replied. Hi there feeling sorry for you and your husband I must say that its all destiny and you should accept that please don't be fear of what happened as you dint do anything purposely and it was gods decision. Arpita replied. Hi there reading your post I think you are quite strong enough to try this again, but according to me you should not consider of getting pregnant again as it might be dangerous to your own health and life. Arpita replied. Hi Rathi really sad thing to happen but please do not loose the hope as its said that the one who fights till the end always wins, in your case also you will win and will have a cute baby. Archana replied. Being positive is the only thing what you can do and there is nothing else, why are you so worried about the child you can always opt for adoption as a good choice. Aparna replied. Hi there this is not the end of life you should understand that, please make yourself so strong that you should make your husband also feel that nothing has happened and you are happy with what you have. Anjali replied. Hi dear what a sad thing to happen by good wishes are with you, please don't loose hope and try your level best to get conceive again as I'm sure this time nothing will go wrong and you will deliver the baby. Anita replied. Hi please believe in god as he is great and surely will make you happy and will bless with a kid, just be strong at this point of time as your husband would also be broken and he also needs the support. Amaira replied. Oh my god this is very sad to happen and that to twice, will pray for you and god will give you the strength to fight against this and I'm sure god will give you the joy happiness what yo are trying for. Aditi replied. This is really sad and my deep concerns are with you, please make yourself busy in some activities and try be happy as much as you can please do not worry at all.