Hey thanks mandeep your words really helped me to cope up with the worst situations thanks for that
Yeahhh I am married since 2years and waiting to have baby soon, as I am 28 and I heard from my relatives and friends after 30 its difficult to have babies so I am really worried and want to have asap so that I will be free from the cruel words which ppl asking me again and again my husband loves me very much he is bit cool but myself very much depressed keep on feeling my self like I am spoiling someones life can' t give baby my mom inlaw also keep asking about it every day .....thinking about it ....its really hard I never felt life soooo much hard to live

Keeti it all depends how your body cope with it as its just a small key hole surgery. I had my Lap on wednesday n on sunday i was back in my shop as i dont want to sit at home n get myself depressed as u can imagine lossing a baby who I want so desperatly was killing me. So i thought better to stand up n work. Even i was also told to have my Lap done in 2003 when Dr. were trying to sort out my inferlity problem but i was so scared of that, that i said No to that.I was told those who under go laprascopy they, then have baby quickly. But dear if that is the only option left then go for it. or try to find othere ways of balancing your hormones.one thing i would like to say here is try to be calm, take every day as it come cos worrying, depresstion etc. will make situtation worse. I know its very easy for me to write but trust me love these 2 things won' t help in anyway.Try to relex your self, slow down if u r busy or should i write very busy women, cos i reduse my business to half n use to go for at least an hour walk plus i had ayurvedic medi. to sort out my infertility problem n was preg. in 4 months time. Can i ask r u trying for a baby? Take care. speak to u later

Mandeep you said you are upon Ayurvedic med can I ask you which ones
I took ayurvedic medicines what RamDev baba adviced for infertility, putrajeek+shivlingi beez(1g daily)
Phal Ghrit ( 1spoon daily )
also I do Pranayam what baba suggested
I do go for a walk for 1-2 Km daily

is there anything I can do other than all these to cure infertility problem.....as Dr advice me to undergo Laproscopy I want to wait for some more time am really scared for lap...
things are getting more and more worse with me after Dr said lap ....not at all interested in anything and I never go to any family occasions , I am scared of people thinking that they may ask about it will be always in sad mood

upon your condition, your chance at complications, and how proficient the doctor is at laprascopy

I under want laprascopy when i suffered ecotopic pregrancy in 2004, n dr. even have to take out my right fallapion as baby was stuck in it n i did concive naturally in 2006 n gave bith in 2007 Jan. I dont think there should be any problem to reproductive capability.

I heard after laproscopy needs 2-weeks rest and it may happen like it leads to internal bleedings and pain
I saw views from many people so really scared .....please share any thoughts
initially Dr said I am haing hormonic imbalance then was under medication for 4-5 months evry month started changing tab and after all checkups again , they said lap....I am really worried often I feel very much depressed and not able to concentrate on my work ...please suggest