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Hello everyone I have a dilema, I caught my SIL with another man, (she is my husbands brothers wife). I caught them in his Pick-up in a parking lot. She saw me and turned around and they drove off. I told my husband and he said what can we do, cause I know his brother will not believe me, cause me and my SIL don't get along very well. We don't know how to tell him, I mean she has two kids what was she thinking. I mean they have no problem with their marriage they are happliy married I mean we have never seen them fight and his brother is always happy, I don't know what has gotten in her to do this, I know she has always wanted attention from everyone, but come on this is not the way. I want to move out, cause I don't want to raise my kids in this house, I mean what is she teaching her kids. I am 8 months pregnant with my first child. I am very disturbed by it and it is stressing me out. I don't know who to tell, or should I approach her, ever since that day, she is being really nice to me, cause she knows I caught her. Please help me before I go mad...... Any one replied. Sister, move out. Obviously, you are not happy there. As far as telling the husband...I don't know. Allright, instead of coming up multiple for her behaviour. Do one thing, take your husband and find a new location. Her behaviour, morality, etc., is between her and her maker (God). People, need to FOCUS on their own morals/behaviour. Do you honestly know what's bothering her? Some people, choose to keep their life private. God, only knows if something is remotely mentioned to the WRONG person. Then, basically a gossip mill starts. Yes, both men and women are guilty of this behaviour. Now, that the SIL is good to you. Please, don't misunderstand me. Try to overlook her fault's. Instead, try to help her out. In other words....be her mentor/buddy. Try, a good workout, yoga, stress buster's. Maybe, she will open up and think about her decision. Infidelity, has been going on from the beginning of time. I believe that God sends angels in the form of people. If you feel and have the power. Then and only then love her as a sister and help her. I hope you find my advice helpful. Good luck. whatNULLNULLNULL replied. the situation is clearly not your business.
its not like u caught ur SIL and the other man in bed.
U r clearly making the issue big (probably u want to see her hurt)
forget all about it and concentrate on ur family
advise replied. I agree with for_sky. I think you should mind your own business. Don't destroy anybody life without knowing the actual facts. Take care of your family rather than your sis-in-law. for_sky replied. Why are you bothered about your sil ? If she is ruining her life, its her problem ? Now you are unnecessarily causing troubles for your health, by getting worried. Relax. Have a comfortable delivery. Your sil can influence your kids only if you allow her. And who knows what sort of relationship she might be having with that guy. You just see to it that your kids have the best behaviour.