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i'm married and having 5 mnth old boy baby.my husband is a nice person.we r staying with his parents.his 2 SIL had pblms in staying with my MIL FIL.so went seperately.my pblm is my MIL doent allow me to cook or do anything of my choice.my FIL doent allow me to talk with neighbours or my parents.i stayed with them till now by my husbands help.he supported me a lot.but now we have built a new house and i want to stay alone.but my husband wants to stay with them.help me 123 replied. I know what you are going through, I went through it the same way. What I don't understand is if your husbands SIL didn't stay than why should you. YOu need to talk to your husband and explain to him that you have a family of your own now and that you two need to be responsible parents and learn to live on your own. I am not saying stop talking to your In-laws but you need your space as well. Your husband should understand that there must have been a reason why his SIL's left and moved out own their own, I mean he should also understand that you cannot live like a prisoner in a jail, how would he feel if he had a sister and her in-laws didn't allow her to talk to her parents, your husband needs to put himself in your shoes and see how he likes it. I talk to my husband and we had a nice talk about this kind of situation and we came to a conclusion, we moved out and his parents come and visit us every other weekend and our relationship is a lot better. We visit them once a while too. good luck and all the best