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i am arvind and i study 7th standard.recently my elder sister kavya who studies in 11th standard read an article about the benefits of ear boring ceremony.since when i was small this ceremony was not perfomed on me,my mother and sister have decided to pierce my ears in a nearby temple.i feel scared of wearing earrings and looking like a girl.pl help
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i am arvind and i study 7th standard.recently my elder sister kavya who studies in 11th standard read an article about the benefits of ear boring ceremony.since when i was small this ceremony was not perfomed on me,my mother and sister have decided to pierce my ears in a nearby temple.i feel scared of wearing earrings and looking like a girl.pl help
ramu replied. your lucky it was done on you wen you were 13. mine was done when i was 15. my cousin sister of 21yrs at that time wanted to have a second ear piercing & wen this was discussed at home, my kadu kuthu ceremony came up. my cousin sister rekha immediately volunteered to be the one in charge of the ceremony. they kept this a secret from me but told me about 4 or 5 months before the ceremony that i don' t have to cut my hair.being of that age, i was just happy that i was allowed to grow my hair & did' nt think anything of it. a week before the ceremony my cousin sister came to stay in my house. on the day she came my mum, dad, 2 aunties & my cousin sister came into my room after my bath while i was changing. i was in shock. they tried to calm me down but i was very nervous & tried to run out of the room. unfortunately my father caught me. they stripped me naked. this was the 1st time since i was 10 that i was naked in front of my family. my cousin sister came near my groins. she said i smelled horrible & i was immediately dragged to the washroom where my cousin sister started to wash my groins with soap & water. she even pulled back the skin & washed everything. then i was taken to my room. here, my cousin sister applied powder to my groin area & back. she then wore a sarong for me with no underwear inside. how do you think i felt like when i was treated like a baby & had to wear something like a skirt with nothing underneath?? i felt horrible.. & it got worse... i was told that from now on my cousin sister will be in charge of bathing me & i was to wear only the sarong during all times when i' m at home. i protested. my protest was answered by a slap from my cousin sister. she said i either agreed to the condition or they would tie me naked at the gate, bath me & keep me there for a week. given the choices, i chose the lesser of two evils...
to be continued with part 2.
arvind replied. hi everyone,
last monday i had the ear piercing ceremony done on me by my elder sister kaavya.i will give a detailed account
of my experience.around 4 months ago my sister decided to perform this ceremony on me,for 4 months i was not
allowed to cut my hair and my hair grew to shoulder length.also since i would look feminine after the ceremony
my mother changed me to a girls school.around 3 weeks ago,my sister and mom took me to a jewellery shop(joy allukas)
to buy jeweleries for me.first we went to the earrings section where my sister selected a diamond jhumki while my mom
selected a kundan earring and finally it was the kundan earring which was so long it almost touched my shoulder
and it was heavy as well.it consisted of intricate patterns and ended with a pearl drop and it was very feminine and
for girls only,but kaavya told i would look cute in it
sanjana replied. dear arvind
congrats,it is very wise of your elder sister to pierce your ear lobes,due to its enormous benefits.since you will girlish or feminine with a large earring hanging from your ears,its better to complete the look by wearing skirts,jewellery(like bangles,anklets) and look fully like a girl
arvind replied. hi all
my elder sis kaavya has decided to conduct the ear piercing ceremony tomorrow in a near by amman temple.also the earring is a secret.also since i would look feminine with earrings i hav to wear only skirts.
aditi replied. dear arvind
ear boring ceremony is very important and you must thank your elder sister for performing the ceremony on you.ear boring will be just like a small bite,and if a heated(red hot) needle is used ,then possibility of infection is very less,so dont worry.also i m sure after a few days, you will like earrings and u will ask ur sister for her earrings !
all the best!
Me replied. Dear Arvind
Dont feel shy, its required for many good reasons.You wont even feel the pain. Just get it
sanjana replied. dear arvind
please dont be scared or frightened.piercing of one' s lobe is very good for health,it improves eyesight and hearing,since your ears were not pierced when you were small,it is good that your sister and mother have
decided to do it.there are many types of earrings:
1)studs
2)hoops(bangle types)
3)hooks(dangle types)
4)ear drops
i recommend that you go in for a hoop or ear drops made of gold,if your sister allows you to choose the earrings.though wearing earrings you will look feminine,dont worry you will also look cute.the pain will last for a week and then i am sure u will enjoy wearing earrings.best of luck,post your experiences.
2012-04-29
#1
Name: ramu Subject: ear piercing
your lucky it was done on you wen you were 13. mine was done when i was 15. my cousin sister of 21yrs at that time wanted to have a second ear piercing & wen this was discussed at home, my kadu kuthu ceremony came up. my cousin sister rekha immediately volunteered to be the one in charge of the ceremony. they kept this a secret from me but told me about 4 or 5 months before the ceremony that i don' t have to cut my hair.being of that age, i was just happy that i was allowed to grow my hair & did' nt think anything of it. a week before the ceremony my cousin sister came to stay in my house. on the day she came my mum, dad, 2 aunties & my cousin sister came into my room after my bath while i was changing. i was in shock. they tried to calm me down but i was very nervous & tried to run out of the room. unfortunately my father caught me. they stripped me naked. this was the 1st time since i was 10 that i was naked in front of my family. my cousin sister came near my groins. she said i smelled horrible & i was immediately dragged to the washroom where my cousin sister started to wash my groins with soap & water. she even pulled back the skin & washed everything. then i was taken to my room. here, my cousin sister applied powder to my groin area & back. she then wore a sarong for me with no underwear inside. how do you think i felt like when i was treated like a baby & had to wear something like a skirt with nothing underneath?? i felt horrible.. & it got worse... i was told that from now on my cousin sister will be in charge of bathing me & i was to wear only the sarong during all times when i' m at home. i protested. my protest was answered by a slap from my cousin sister. she said i either agreed to the condition or they would tie me naked at the gate, bath me & keep me there for a week. given the choices, i chose the lesser of two evils...
to be continued with part 2.
2012-05-02
#2
Name: ramu Subject: ear piercing
part 2
i was not the only victim of my cousin sister. my younger brother who was 12 & younger sister who was 10 at that time were also given the same treatment as myself. fortunately my brother could take it bcoz he was still being bathed by my aunties whenever he goes over to their place & my younger sister was still a baby to feel shy. more over, she had not yet reached puberty. the next day, during our baths in the morning (done graciously by my cousin sister with the 3 of us at the same time), both my sisters (younger sister & cousin sister) kept on smiling & laughing looking at their brothers p***ses. my sisters laughed even more when the skins were pulled back to wash the heads. my cousin sister also introduced an exercise stretching & pulling the skin as far as it will go in front, then let it go. this induced a spring like motion whereby the skin will return to its original position & become a folded long skin while shaking the whole p***s(try this on your younger brothers or yourself if you have a fores**n). she repeated this for about 10times each person. this made my whole family laugh, except for us, the two boys who were the center of attraction. both of us were blushing so much, the red colour could be seen on our brown faces. after the bath, my cousin sister powdered us & dressed us up. when my younger sister asked why were being dressed up, we were told that were going shopping. we went to a ladies store in town. there, my cousin sister took the hip & chest measurement of my brother & i. when asked, she said just for fun & went off somewhere. my parents were happily choosing clothes for my younger sister. after a while, my cousin sister came & chose a few pavadai thavani (half sarees), skirts, blouse & sarees. we boys didn´ t bother about it as they never disturbed us. unknown to us, my cousin sister was purchasing the clothes for us boys with the measurements she had taken. she is so cunning. after clothes shopping, we had lunch. next we went to a jewelry store. the girls were having a lot of discussions here. they were so happy. jewelry just makes women so happy. =) us boys were called a few times to check the length of the gimmiki´ s & kundans & also how a few nose rings (including septum rings) would look like on our noses. we boys played along, thinking it was for fun. at last a few jewelries were selected (this included netti chuttis, necklaces, bangles & anklets). without our knowledge, my parents had also bought 2 ear piercing needles (which is still being kept by my mum as a family heirloom.. =)). no other events took place until a day before the ceremony. until that very second, the 3 victims of my cousin sister had no idea of what was goin to happen to us.
to be continued with part 3.
2011-10-29
#3
Name: arvind Subject: ear piercing done :) 1
hi everyone,
last monday i had the ear piercing ceremony done on me by my elder sister kaavya.i will give a detailed account
of my experience.around 4 months ago my sister decided to perform this ceremony on me,for 4 months i was not
allowed to cut my hair and my hair grew to shoulder length.also since i would look feminine after the ceremony
my mother changed me to a girls school.around 3 weeks ago,my sister and mom took me to a jewellery shop(joy allukas)
to buy jeweleries for me.first we went to the earrings section where my sister selected a diamond jhumki while my mom
selected a kundan earring and finally it was the kundan earring which was so long it almost touched my shoulder
and it was heavy as well.it consisted of intricate patterns and ended with a pearl drop and it was very feminine and
for girls only,but kaavya told i would look cute in it
2011-10-29
#4
Name: arvind Subject: ear piercing :) 2
then my mom bought bangles,anklets,nose rings and a nethi chuti for
me to complete my look.i became very afraid especially of the earrings since it was very heavy and very long as well(for my earlobe
to my shoulders).my hair was long now and my sister decided that it needs a hair cut,so she took me to her beauty parlour.there i was
given a blunt fringe,and rest of my hair was center parted and left free.when i looked in the mirror i was shocked as i looked
just like a girl.then another round of shopping where my new clothes were brought which consisted of pattu pavaadis(silk skirts) and
some half sarees.finally the date was set and the temple chosen for my ear piercing was an " amman" (goddess) temple very near my house.
after what seemed like a lot of days the big day arrived,i was both afraid and excited.first was the head shaving ceremony or mottai.
my sister removed all my clothes as being naked was ´ pure´ though i hesitated first she soon removed my clothes.then we went to the hall where lot of barbers were present,my sister chose
a lady barber.i had to sit on kaavya´ s lap as she only performs the ceremony as my elder sister.after settling into a
comfortable position on kaavya´ s lap,then kaavya tightly held my head,and her grip was steel hard and i couldnt move my head.
the barber oiled my hair,and parted down center and started shaving,first it burnt like anything,
but then i got used to it
2011-09-03
#5
Name: sanjana Subject: ear piercing confirmed
dear arvind
congrats,it is very wise of your elder sister to pierce your ear lobes,due to its enormous benefits.since you will girlish or feminine with a large earring hanging from your ears,its better to complete the look by wearing skirts,jewellery(like bangles,anklets) and look fully like a girl
2011-09-06
#6
Name: sanjana Subject: looking like agirl
dear arvind
good for you!! you wont feel odd and you will look very cute and feminine as well.also for the nose piercing,request your sister to pierce the center of the nose(septum) as you that will only suit young boys/girls,though a little bit of pain would be there
2011-09-04
#7
Name: arvind Subject: re:ear piercing confirmed
hi sanjana
that is exactly what my akka kavya is planning to do to me.apart from earrings she is going to pierce my nose as well.also after the ceremony i have to wear chudi,patu paavadi etc and other jewelleries as well
2011-09-03
#8
Name: Arjun Subject: Sorry
Hai sanjana.
What happened to you?
What is my mistake?
I treated you as a friend..but you´ ve cheated me..why?
If i hurted you,
so sorry
2011-08-28
#9
Name: arvind Subject: ear piercing confirmed
hi all
my elder sis kaavya has decided to conduct the ear piercing ceremony tomorrow in a near by amman temple.also the earring is a secret.also since i would look feminine with earrings i hav to wear only skirts.
2011-08-22
#10
Name: aditi Subject: RE:ear piercing problem
dear arvind
ear boring ceremony is very important and you must thank your elder sister for performing the ceremony on you.ear boring will be just like a small bite,and if a heated(red hot) needle is used ,then possibility of infection is very less,so dont worry.also i m sure after a few days, you will like earrings and u will ask ur sister for her earrings !
all the best!
2011-08-18
#11
Name: Me Subject: Re: ear piercing problem
Dear Arvind
Dont feel shy, its required for many good reasons.You wont even feel the pain. Just get it
2011-08-18
#12
Name: sanjana Subject: RE:ear piercing problem
dear arvind
please dont be scared or frightened.piercing of one' s lobe is very good for health,it improves eyesight and hearing,since your ears were not pierced when you were small,it is good that your sister and mother have
decided to do it.there are many types of earrings:
1)studs
2)hoops(bangle types)
3)hooks(dangle types)
4)ear drops
i recommend that you go in for a hoop or ear drops made of gold,if your sister allows you to choose the earrings.though wearing earrings you will look feminine,dont worry you will also look cute.the pain will last for a week and then i am sure u will enjoy wearing earrings.best of luck,post your experiences.
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