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2004-01-28
Name: Sonu K



Hi!
Well I have going through a confused state right now.I don't know if I should choose career or for a baby. I know it is definately me and my partner's decision ultimately but would request you guys to suggest me.
I am doing my MS right now and would be completing it this dec 04.I don't know if I should complete my MS and then look out for a job and then go for a baby.So that would mean mid 05 I should start trying to concieve. Or should I plan to have a baby sometime around the time I finish my MS and then after the baby is abt 4 to 5 months old look out for the job. I am really really confused. My hubby suggests that I look out for a job and then have a baby but he also asks it's your call as it's your career you wanna have a baby and then try for a job it's ok with him. A little background of myself I would be turning 27 years old this Oct and sad but true I had terminated a pregnancy in Jan 02.This was due to financial situation we were in and he had to support his parents too. So we really didn't think it was the right time.It was an accidental pregnany.Now we are financailly sound and capable of providing a good life for a new baby. One thing guys I was and am at times really depressed of our decision then so would request you not to really point at me for the termination and pls pls suggest and give me ur suggestions. Is it ok to postpone my pregnancy as I am 27 and till when is it really safe.I am esp worried as I had a termination earlier. I had the medical termination and not the clinical one. Looking forwad for your help and suggestion.
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2004-02-24
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Anonymous Name: hope4baby
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it is finally going to be your decision..but one thing i can tell u that as we get older our chances of becoming pregnent decreases.. So in my opinion one should get their first baby as early as they can afford it.. but later after 30 years really things look different..So think about it if your are financially sound to support now..
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