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2010-11-22
Name: Prajna



Saturday (20th) we - my parents, myself and sis - were again in Tirumala for my second tonsure. I had about three fourth inch of hair on the morning of 20th. Only I was to be tonsured. This time we all went to Kalyanakatta, took a ticket for me and waited in the queue in the women' s shaving area. My number was with a gent barber only. With short hair, it was a very quick thing. Water, massage, shave and cleanup - may be it took about 3 minutes. Again the feeling of getting tonsured was very good. After darshan we are back in Bangalore.

On Monday I went to office without covering. Since everyone knew that I would tonsure again, not many raised their eyebrows. It was as if nothing had changed.

But for me and my folks, especially Pranati, my second tonsure has given immense joy. While mom and dad caress my grey bald head often with affection, Pranati like last time cannot leave me alone whenever she is around. Either her hand or her eyes or both are on my smooth, grey, bald head. She seriously said today Akka, you look so beautiful like this, that why dont you stay bald?

Pranati (who is a BCom and is employed in a Bank) will get married not earlier than another 2 years. So I suggested a tonsure for her in coming March along with mine after my marriage. This time she happily agreed. Mom said that she would also join and get tonsured. So a fortnight after my marriage all in my parental family will be bald.

My mom said that now on I am free to get my hair cut anywhere to any length but warned me not to use razor on my head except in religious places. I hope I will be able to heed her words.

Now I hope to get about two and half inches of hair before marriage. I do not know with that length what type of boycut is possible for the reception. My prospective mil giggled and said Leave it to me. I will take care. I hope that she will not get a punk cut for me.
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2011-01-21
#1
Anonymous Name: kajal
Subject:  id



hi
prajna sorry for miss spelled you name
can u send me u r id i have something to show u thank
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2011-01-21
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Anonymous Name: kajal
Subject:  thank



hi
prajna kajal vedpathak
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2011-01-01
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Anonymous Name: kajal
Subject:  good advise



hi
Pranja i am happy that u have doen 2nd head shave. and also for advise given by u to Nandini. bocz a girl who hesitated to cut her hair after her first head shave she encouraging other to go for it .but i cant bcoz in my family girl and women don' t cut hair even a trim also not allowed so i have made one fake bald photo of my picture. i can send it to u and if it is possible for u. can u send me u r head shave video so i will try to conveyance my hubby for my head shave and after that for hair cut.plz give me some advice Thank for taking my advice
wish you happy new year and happy marriage life in advance
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2011-01-01
#4
Anonymous Name: Prajna
Subject:  Advice to Kajal



Dear Kajal
As you have seen in my messages, I am a new entrant to the world of tonsure and I have shaved my head just twice since October. There are many women who get their heads shaved once in a while (five years, eight years etc.) in religious places such as Tirupati, Palani etc. I suggest that you take your husband to one such place and ask him to get his head shaved. I hope he agrees at least for that. Tirupati´ s Kalyanakatta is the best. There at any given time some women will be there who get shaved. He can see some of them and get convinced that you also can get shaved the next time.
But family peace is more important than a head shave. You should not press too much for it to spoil that peace. It is for you two to settle it amicably.
But nowadays some of the traditions are changing. One such is that cutting of women´ s hair. There are very few women in cities below the age of 30 who have not trimmed their hair a little. So a married female getting a tonsure at a religious place is, I think, perfectly all right. But keep other traditional things like bindi, earstuds, bangles, nose stud and toe rings. Then probably your husband will relent and allow you to tonsure once and, if you so wish, keep it a boy cut or bob cut once it grows back.
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2010-12-13
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Anonymous Name: nandini
Subject:  stay bald



Hi prajna you are really lucky to have such a good in-laws. you had written that your sis had asked you to stay bald. what have you decided for staying bald? pls... share. since my hubby have asked me the same. he wants me to stay bald after our annual tirupati tonsure and grow hair just before 2 months so as to have some hair to be tonsured at tirupati. though it seems to be interesting but how am i going to face my neighbours and relatives. pls... suggest me what to do.
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2010-12-16
#6
Anonymous Name: Prajna
Subject:  Staying bald!



Dear Nandini,
My sis might have suggested for me to stay bald. But I will be doing as my future hubby and m-i-l suggests. And that will be a nice and short boycut in general and a tonsure once in two years. Right now I cant cut it since I need some hair for my boycut on the day of my marriage reception which is just about two and half months away.
As for your husband asking you to stay bald most of the year. You say ´ our annual tirupati tonsure´ . That means already you are having a tonsure every year. If you can face neighbours and relatives with a bald head once a year, you can face them bald always. Dont worry about it. What matters is whether you are happy about it and your husband is happy about. If so, go ahead and stay bald. Get a clipper shave every week in a barber shop. My future sis-in-law says that it is a nice experience. Otherwise, say a firm no to your husband and settle for a boycut in between annual tonsures.
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2010-11-26
#7
Anonymous Name: Bubla
Subject:  Hi Prajna



I congratulate you for your bold move to shave your head & I am also keeping my hair very short after shaving my head.I want see your before & after headshave picture & if any video is available please send me to my yahoo id bubla.chaturvedi or my gmail id ajantacha97.I will send you mine.
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2010-11-23
#8
Anonymous Name: Hansledwnk
Subject:  Congrats



Nice to see that women are also enjoying being bald.
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