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Waiting to try:Scared and Impatient

2007-08-21

Name: Aanchal Hello everyone,

I sometimes feel relaxed while reading the messages.I had 2 miscarriages.My last one was in April. We changed our gynac after that.He told us to try after 3 cycles.We have started trying from last month.No sucess till now. I am scared anad impatient about my fertility.I hope everything is fine and I become pregnant early.

My first pregnancy was may be because of blood clotting.So doc had sugested aspiring for the next. But We didn' t for the next pregnancy.We tried after 1month.We had all the tests done and everything is fine.

Please do help me to come out of this.

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Hello everyone,

I sometimes feel relaxed while reading the messages.I had 2 miscarriages.My last one was in April. We changed our gynac after that.He told us to try after 3 cycles.We have started trying from last month.No sucess till now. I am scared anad impatient about my fertility.I hope everything is fine and I become pregnant early.

My first pregnancy was may be because of blood clotting.So doc had sugested aspiring for the next. But We didn' t for the next pregnancy.We tried after 1month.We had all the tests done and everything is fine.

Please do help me to come out of this.
sudha replied. hi aanchal,
1st welcome to TTC .. we all are in TTC and can really understand ur worries and beleive me ..when u least expect it things will happen ..last time i conceived with in 3 mnths of leaving my pill!!
but yes dont panic its just 1 mnth gv it some time...as u know unlike men we just have few hrs of fertility and chances are jst 20% everymnth and this chance increases as u try more provided in the corect time as it has been found out u had clotting try all precautions and dont get anything wrong
yes it also said a misccarige before 12 weeks is natures way of stopping furthur complication because the foetus has soem abnormality mostly genetic ...did ur gyne ask u to get a genetic profiling done if no ask her because at time u never know some thing might b hiding
well but in all circumstances be calm and positive why dont u try the breathing exercises...beleive me it helps
take and god bless you
sudha Tryingtobepositive replied. I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriages.I know how hard it can be.And it is normal to be scared.But try your best to relax.The more stressed you are,the harder it is to get pregnant.Try to stay positive.Makes a big difference.

I wanted to ask you something?You wrote
\" My first pregnancy was may be because of blood clotting.So doc had sugested aspiring for the next\" Did you mean Aspirin? If yes,why didn' t you try it?My doctor has recommended I take a baby aspirin.Studies have shown that it increases blood flow to the ovaries and prevents clotting.

Also what kind of tests did your doctor do?Sometimes everything can be normal and one can still have a miscarriage.

Anyway,try to be patient.Stay positive and you will be pregnant soon.In the meantime,be sure you are under the care of a good doc.

Take care and God bless you.

2007-08-22

Name: sudha
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hi aanchal,
1st welcome to TTC .. we all are in TTC and can really understand ur worries and beleive me ..when u least expect it things will happen ..last time i conceived with in 3 mnths of leaving my pill!!
but yes dont panic its just 1 mnth gv it some time...as u know unlike men we just have few hrs of fertility and chances are jst 20% everymnth and this chance increases as u try more provided in the corect time as it has been found out u had clotting try all precautions and dont get anything wrong
yes it also said a misccarige before 12 weeks is natures way of stopping furthur complication because the foetus has soem abnormality mostly genetic ...did ur gyne ask u to get a genetic profiling done if no ask her because at time u never know some thing might b hiding
well but in all circumstances be calm and positive why dont u try the breathing exercises...beleive me it helps
take and god bless you
sudha

2007-08-21

Name: Tryingtobepositive
Subject:

Hi!

I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriages.I know how hard it can be.And it is normal to be scared.But try your best to relax.The more stressed you are,the harder it is to get pregnant.Try to stay positive.Makes a big difference.

I wanted to ask you something?You wrote
\" My first pregnancy was may be because of blood clotting.So doc had sugested aspiring for the next\" Did you mean Aspirin? If yes,why didn' t you try it?My doctor has recommended I take a baby aspirin.Studies have shown that it increases blood flow to the ovaries and prevents clotting.

Also what kind of tests did your doctor do?Sometimes everything can be normal and one can still have a miscarriage.

Anyway,try to be patient.Stay positive and you will be pregnant soon.In the meantime,be sure you are under the care of a good doc.

Take care and God bless you.

2007-08-24

Name: Tryingtobepositive
Subject:

Hi!

Hey Aanchal,

Sorry for the late reply.Have been extremely busy.I am sorry to hear that you had to get an abortion.But don´ t think that God is punishing you for that.Try to put it behind you and focus on the future.

I am glad to hear that you had a complete work up done and your results are normal.Continue taking the aspirin as per your doctor´ s advice.And try whenever you are ready emotionally and physically.My doc had asked me to wait only a month but if your doc wants you to wait three months,I would especially since you had 2 miscarriages so close to each other.

Did you discuss heparin injections with your other doc?What did he say?

Anyway,have faith and try to be positive.Things will work out.

Take care,

TBP

2007-08-22

Name: Aanchal
Subject:

I hope everything goes fine....

Hello,

Thanx for the message.
I had got an abortion the first time as I got pregnent after 6 months of my marriage.I and my husband were not ready .
I hope God is not giving the punishment for this.But I know how I had taken.

My first miscarriage was in Dec-2006 It was 6 weeks.Doc said it is a complete abortion.After we had tests ie APLA test done.We didn´ t have anything positive but some of the readings were on the higher side. Doc sugested to take baby aspirin for the next pregnancy.She also said that we can try after 1 cycle.
We tried and got pregnant the next month.But I had blight ovum in the 12 weeks.There was heart beat on 6 th week but no heart beat on 12th week.
After that doc had told us to take heparin injection every as I confirm my pregnancy.And also she suggested for us to try after 1 cycle.

But we wend for a second opinion and he told us to wait for 3 cycles. He had also got some tests done( ie ANA serum check diabetis thyroid) but all were normal.I also had a ovulation check which is normal.I am in the 29 day cycle.I have periods regular.

So He told us wait for 3 cycles and then try.I started taking folic acid and Aspirin.So I hope we get the best results this time.

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