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this is really stressing me. i am doing bad in skool. but i cant stop thinking about.

what are some good things to pass time?

me and my boyfriend love each other, we shared everything. i give my email password to him and he give it to me, we had a fight(we fight for little things but get back together)he changed his password and now not telling me.

we fight a lot blc he has soooo many friends that are girls.

also before i called him every day, even he told me to call him everyday sometimes even every HOUR!
when we were fighting he said(msn) thats y he backed off me blc i called him everyday.

i stoped calling him. and he also never tried to contact me by email.

we are long distance.
what should i do? i miss him a lot!
parul replied. Dear n,

u r in school so i assume u would not be more than 17.
at this age ur first concern should be ur studies, there will be lots of time in future for romance n boyfriends. i feel that u are unneccessarily worried abt petty things, a boyfriend who is ignoring you, making hundred calls day,he hiding his password, his loads of girl friends.these things r troubling you coz u r letting them trouble you.why r u so much interested in this fellow?
do well in studies so as to have a bright career ahead. ur successful n confident personality will attract many worthy guys in ur later years but if u keep ur mind occupied with boyfriend stuff at this age then u might regret it later.
forget this fellow, u two donot seem to be there for each other.
is ur school having any counseller? if yes go n talk to them to ease mental burden.
lastly, there are many interesting n fun things to achieve at school age other than i-have-a-boyfriend status.
please take care n use to will power to forgive n forget ur ' ex' -boyfriend.
good luck.