Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

hi sudha,

i read your messages on this section and felt like replying.even im on TTC since 3 months but still no success.how r u?

its going to be 11 months since i lost my child.but now pain is less.lets hope v all get successful this time.do tk care and keep posting

hi sf
i too got my period was a wee bit disappoint but its ok its just the 1st mnth of my trying ...this took me back to my last preg where i got preg just within 3 mnths of leaving my pill and also i had a job at that time and love making was so so iregular i found out i was preg just on my b day in april and u wont beleive in the mnth of march we hardly did it due lot of reasons.. i just pray this time too things go of so smothly
keep in touch
sudha

sudha in my case also my husband was not at ready for having kids for 6 odd years......reason known to him only.....after that when we tried i conceived the very 1st month ....things were really easy no problems no complications ...never expected this could happen....how u lost ur baby...? do u live in india and are u fluent with hindi or sanskirit then i could share something especial with u

hi siya
happy friendship day to u
yes i will pray too that u get to hear the good news soon well as of now its true lets keep ourselves happy and be positive
men are not bothered is a small word i think the are insensitive my husband has outright said he is not interested in children the very 1st time i conceived and says same now ,its me who is holding him at gunpoint to have chidren . i too hope the stork visits me soon
love
sudha

hi sudha,

happy friends day!!!

i thought my husband is like that but by reading ur message i find husbands are like that only...
eversince i lost my baby i counted each day and have only one thing in my mind and that is to conceive again as soon as possible...my husband got irritated at times but i can,t help it as this is the only thing in mind....these forum had helped me a lot in many way...but he thinks its waste of time...so lets keep ourselves happy let them be on their own.....dont worry soon we´ ll share good news...tomorrow or day after tomorrow i ll be visiting my gynac ..would tell u what she says......be happy and all the best sudha

hi siya
dear i was just thinking about u some time back and more tdy all u dear girls crossed my mind ,Rishona turned 9 mnths tdy it was a sad day for me but i have coem to terms of my loss and yes i feel how u feel right now the anxiety and not letting go any moment
yes u can cycle but dont do anything heavy impacy .. may be a 10 to 15 mnts low impact cycling ( try to do the static ones or if ur into the moving ones avoid during monsoon as u might slip on the road )is ok even i cycle but have stopped all my heavy gyming and i do just light wts( 2 kgs) ,yoga ,breathings and some stretchings
even im on TTC from last mnth and some how i too get paranoid alas my husband odesnt really into " it" as i m ,im following the bbt and cm tracking method to detect my ovulation ,it seems i may be ovulating tomorrow but its been 2 days noa ction and my husbands least bothered ,how i wish we never had to depend upon men to conceive
but best of luck for ur TTC and pray u get the good luck soon
as of now keep in touch and bye
sudha

hi sudha this is siya u had dropped a message in diet and exercise column i just want to know weather it is adviceable to do cycling if u r ttc as i will start trying from this month onwards .....i dont want to miss any opportunity this time ....as i waited long for having a baby and then loosing the same .