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2007-06-26

Name: parul garg i' m 32, my daughter is 3 n a hlf, will conceiving and delivering a babay b a problem for me at my age n stage. we' r a nuclear family , just my hubby daughter n me. no help frm inlaws, lost my own mthr whn i was 13...
i' v lotsa doubts n many fears..

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i' m 32, my daughter is 3 n a hlf, will conceiving and delivering a babay b a problem for me at my age n stage. we' r a nuclear family , just my hubby daughter n me. no help frm inlaws, lost my own mthr whn i was 13...
i' v lotsa doubts n many fears.. abc replied. and am loving it!! Absolutely normal delivery. It was my first and there wernt any medical or health problems at all.

If you are healthy and active, 32 yrs is not a problem at all. ss replied. hi parul
there is no need to worry i had a daughter age 6 when i conceived now my son is 3 months old i had no complications it was a normal delivery so dont worry every thing will be alright
bye take care Meenaa replied. Hi Parul,
I am sure conceiving and delivering at 32 would not be a prob. But its always better to have your kids before 35 because after that age there could be a few probs. I myself am 33, have a 3 year old son and am ttc.
Like Pete suggested, you can always get a maid to help you with your new baby/daughter. I suggest you get one a couple of mths before delivery so that she will be around when u need her the most i.e. when u just come back from hoispital. Its also easier to find a maid and hire her in advance so that you are not desparately looking for help at the last min.
If you are living abroad, I am afraid you will have to call some relative to help out for a mth or so. It would be tough for you to manage on your own especially as you already have a toddler to take care of.
I hope you have started taking folic acid if you are ttc.
Good luck! And go ahead!!
M Pete replied. Hi Parul,

Even We are a nuclear family. Its just my spouse, daughter and me. I am 32 years old and my spouse is 31 years old and she is carrying. Its her 5th month now. So your age nor your Hubby' s age won' t be any problem to you conceiving.

For the post delivery help you can look for a maid. I know its hard to find one. Also see if you can get a good day care who takes your kid at the age of 6 months. I know one in Bangalore who is ready to take them at 3 month. I am saying this, because my daughter was sent to the same Creche when she was 11 months old. This will work if you are also working. Even if you are not working, you can send the kids to a good day care so they pick up things fast and they get a good routine and learn to speak, behave, and be tolerant than the kids who are home alone with their parents or maids. No offense please !

I am talking out of experience' s, so cheer up Parul and take off all your doubts.

Cheers !

Pete

2007-08-02

Name: abc
Subject:

I had a baby at 34

and am loving it!! Absolutely normal delivery. It was my first and there wernt any medical or health problems at all.

If you are healthy and active, 32 yrs is not a problem at all.

2007-07-26

Name: ss
Subject:

i had a baby at 32

hi parul
there is no need to worry i had a daughter age 6 when i conceived now my son is 3 months old i had no complications it was a normal delivery so dont worry every thing will be alright
bye take care

2007-06-26

Name: Meenaa
Subject:

Hi Parul,
I am sure conceiving and delivering at 32 would not be a prob. But its always better to have your kids before 35 because after that age there could be a few probs. I myself am 33, have a 3 year old son and am ttc.
Like Pete suggested, you can always get a maid to help you with your new baby/daughter. I suggest you get one a couple of mths before delivery so that she will be around when u need her the most i.e. when u just come back from hoispital. Its also easier to find a maid and hire her in advance so that you are not desparately looking for help at the last min.
If you are living abroad, I am afraid you will have to call some relative to help out for a mth or so. It would be tough for you to manage on your own especially as you already have a toddler to take care of.
I hope you have started taking folic acid if you are ttc.
Good luck! And go ahead!!
M

2007-06-26

Name: Pete
Subject:

Parul

Hi Parul,

Even We are a nuclear family. Its just my spouse, daughter and me. I am 32 years old and my spouse is 31 years old and she is carrying. Its her 5th month now. So your age nor your Hubby' s age won' t be any problem to you conceiving.

For the post delivery help you can look for a maid. I know its hard to find one. Also see if you can get a good day care who takes your kid at the age of 6 months. I know one in Bangalore who is ready to take them at 3 month. I am saying this, because my daughter was sent to the same Creche when she was 11 months old. This will work if you are also working. Even if you are not working, you can send the kids to a good day care so they pick up things fast and they get a good routine and learn to speak, behave, and be tolerant than the kids who are home alone with their parents or maids. No offense please !

I am talking out of experience' s, so cheer up Parul and take off all your doubts.

Cheers !

Pete

2007-06-29

Name: sneha
Subject:

me too having the same doubt

Hi,

I am also having the same doubt. I have a daughter and she is 5 years old. I am 33 years old. Though initially i thought one kid is enough, now i realise that having a single kid is not a correct decision thinking of the lonely life my daughter should live. She has already started asking for a brother or sister..So i feel all parents of single kid should plan at the earliest for a second one. Other wise our kid will miss all the fun we had with our brothers and sisters.. What is ur opinion .. friends??

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