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Hi friends,

My hubby is nowadays becoming arrogant and short tempered.He is not knowing how to control his irritation.And he is seeking my help.
He complains he is geting angry if anyone talks irrelevant or behave insane.
Even with me he is behaving same. But I' m understanding his irritation and staying cool myself ,Later he says \" unable to control myself,Y its happenign to me?\"
I tried telling him Meditation but he yelled again saying \" dont give suggestion which cant help me\" he says he cant follow concentration based situations.
He is not in any tensions. Having good posiition in office bur little over loaded with project tension .Also have to visit our new apartment for changes which is extra burden for him .I cant go with my baby to that apartments because its dust filled and baby has dust allergy.
He doesnt even like my baby going there..

These days I felt he is being bad only to me and with his parents he is sweet. Today I came to know that in my absence he is being bitter to them ,but as his mom is very hurt that he was very patient guy but changing due to his project tensions, he has to cover up her with sweet words.
But how to make him balanced again? He is getting irritation if I talk anything unnecessary. SO I' m trying to understand his phase and keeping myself cool.
He is also trying to have some tips.
He seriously need to do something. He is tryig to be sweet with me but cant help. still its ok.

He is not at all loosing temper with my baby because he is already feeling guilty for behaving with elders. So I suggested him to control it similar way u r controlling with her.
But its of no use.

As he is willing to change, I seriously want some advice except this yoga ,meditation.He is saying he cant concentrate. I keep home cool and talk sweet ...so things r fine.But even my parents feel mannerless fellow so shows anger on face though they didnt do anything. Likewise every other might feel him so ,right?What to do?
Pl advise me to change him? dpp replied. Probably the change in place might have changed him. We were in USA and now that we r in Ind, he doesnt like systems and policies .gets annoyed with traffic .Gets iiritated with indian mentality. But frankly speaking while staying india, he too behave same and doesnt much follow rules, then y shd he blame others? he feel what ever he do is correct.he think he is perfect and others not being acc to him makes him go crazy.