Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

We have trying since 3 and half years now, but failed to conceive. i started taking treatment since last october. I was given Letroz for 6 months but only one month i got pregnat in january and i had a misscarrige after 50 days. Now last month i have taken IUI treatment but once again we failed. I am planning to take a break of 2 months as we are getting too stressed with the treatments. I planning to join a GYM and get into shape as i have gained little weight due to these medicines and stress. Can anyone advice what to do . I am feeling absolutely blank. My Dr suggested one more round of IUI but i am losing hope from everything.Please Help kitu replied. We have trying since 2 and half years now, but failed to conceive.pls suggest me any good lady doctor in north Delhi.previously doctor told me that i m normal & my hubby too. i m 28yrs. n my hubby is 30yrs. pls help beautifuleyes replied. Prisha,
First I'm so sorry for the loss of your long awaited pregnancy.
IUI should be tried at least 3-4 times to give it a fair chance.You have been through a lot this year and if you feel you need break,take one. All the best.
Angelica replied.

Never Lose Hope Prisha always remember one thing we are co-creators with God we create our present and also our tommorow.

Convince your self, connect your self with your inner self and your higher conciousness that you will conceive a heathly and strong Baby and you will prisha..

The posibilities are endless...

A Word about Stress



We now know that persistent, chronic, low-level stress is a major cause of turmoil and suffering. Acute physical, chemical or mental stressors, that have a well defined beginning and end, are something we are well designed to handle. It?s the pervasive, on-going, ever-present stress of day-to-day living that we now see as the real villain.

Chronic, unrelenting stress involves demands that cause the Wisdom of the body to divert energy normally used to maintain balanced thought and physical homeostasis. This diverted energy is then ready to be used for fight or flight. Energy focus is changed from inward to outward. This is proper if there is a real threat to life and limb. It is not proper if it is continually on-going.

When our energy focus is outward:
We are lateralized into one or the other brain hemisphere;
One side of the brain is dominant, the other side is passive;
One side of the body is powerful and the other side weak;
Balance, homeostasis, and whole brain function is lost.


This lateralized state is appropriate when there is real danger and when it only lasts for short periods of time. It is inappropriate when it lasts for weeks, months or years. Numerous studies indicate that an inappropriate stress response is, for many people, a lifetime proposition.


When the Wisdom of the body believes we are in danger, It automatically shifts us into a flight or flight mode. This happens because our defense mechanisms are designed to work in a priority way. When It perceives that we are in danger, i.e. either chronic or acute stress, that is a higher priority than maintaining homeostasis. It could mean life or death. We shift into mainly one hemisphere of the brain, refocusing and redistributing the body?s limited amount of energy outward, ready for battle or escape.

When we lose homeostasis it means we are moving away from our natural potential. Early warning, objective signs that homeostasis has been lost, are selective weakness, excessive tension, structural imbalance, and defensiveness. In time, after an incubation period of take-it-for-granted, come-and-go problems, serious challenges ultimately become apparent. Treating these warning signs and symptoms is dealing with effects, not the cause. For this unfortunate state to be corrected, the Wisdom within must, through appropriate sensory stimuli, become aware that chronic stress does not necessarily indicate a serious threat. When this happens, the brain synchronizes, weak areas become strong, improper tension levels drop, structure rights itself, we become more naturally objective, and, if damage is not too great, challenges tend to gradually melt away.

Research indicates that Stress is Causative and that Distress is an Effect of that Cause. Time is a critical intermediate factor. At any moment we are in a balanced, un-stressed state, in an improvement stage, or we are stressed-off-balance and getting progressively worse.

Coming out of an inappropriate, off balancing stress state results in:

Whole Brain Function;
Increased Strength;
Less Tension;
Physical Balance;
Greater Life Expression.
Well-Being, Heightened Awareness, Self Healing, Ease, A Source Reconnect, and Inner Peace Become Real Possibilities.
vikas replied. Hi,
Hormones plays a vital role in concieving. And the cheapest and most effective harmoal treat ment is ur state of mine. So keep smiling and thing about ur child( will definitely have this time). Dont think what ever had happened in past. Just think that u r trying it first time. We have gone through the same stress for two years and when my wife gave up all stree for not concieving we gat a positive result. Salisha replied. Prisha, i think it would be a goo didea for you totka ea brak and just concentarte on yourself and health. From Experience stress has alot to do with weather you become pregnant or not.If you feel you are getting stressed and need a break TAKE IT..in 2 months you will be a new person and when you do to IUI again it will take...
good luck dear,
Salisha