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hi all,
we are trying to conceive from past 4 months without success.my problem is my husband ejaculates as soon as he enters me right at the entrance itself.he is not able to penetrate deep inside.he ejaculates right in the beginning that some seimens spill outside my vagina also.i' m really worried about this.is this the reason why we are not conceiving?is it necessary that he ejaculates deep inside me so that the sperms are deposited closer to the cervix?i' m so worried about this.i' ve tried helping him, but its not happening.if he ejaculates right near the entrance can the sperm have the capacity to travel so deep inside me? plz help me on this issue.is this the reason we are not able to conceive?thank u all in advance Mrinalini replied. This response i found online is better:
Might be useful to you ..

Dont worry about the out-flow of semen. That is completely natural. There are literally millions of sperm that are pushed into the vagina during intercourse, Though it takes just one to fertilize the egg. In the 40 million that are ejaculated, only about 12 make it to the egg. Once they have reached its not certain that they will be allowed to fertilize. The average man makes over 100 million sperm a day! Some couples try for years to have a child, putting so much pressure on themselves before giving up. Its then that they concieve. Go figure! Fertilization of an egg is such a delicate process. So many things have to be just right for fertilization to occur. I would suggest, if you havent already, to try intercourse during your ovulation, which happens about 14 days before the first day of your period. Your body is producing more hormones at this time, which signals your uterine lining to become thin and slippery which is typically thick and drier. This change allows the sperms to swim more freely into the fallopian tubes where actual fertilization takes place. You are most likely to get pregnant if you have sex on or near the time of ovulation. Once ovulation has occurred, there is only about a 24-hour window wherethe egg can be fertilized. Sperm can remain viable inside a woman anywhere from 3-7 days.That means a woman is most fertile from several days before to one day after she has ovulated. Mrinalini replied. Hi - I asked a simillar question please see the response - the subject is ´ Question´ i asked 2 days back - I heard its totally normal that some semen runs out while part of it penetrates. The following is the response I found online on a website:


There is a myth that if a woman immediately stands up after sx or if a man and woman have sex while standing, that the semen the man ejaculates will flow out of the woman and she will not become pregnant. This myth is flawed fro a variety of reasons.

If you poured yourself a glass of grape juice and then drank it, did you drink all of it? For those inclined to say " yes," please explain why there is a small bit of juice at the bottom of the glass and that the sides of the glass are stained purple. Pouring something out of a container doesn´ t remove all that existed. For the same reason when a man ejaculates semen into a woman´ s vagina, even when some of it comes back out, all of it does not. The average man ejaculates about one to two teaspoons of semen. That fluid contains about a half-billion sperm cells. All it takes is one sperm to reach the egg to cause fertilization and pregnancy. Can you guarantee that all 500,000,000 sperm cells placed within you will flow out? I can give you better odds that quite a number will remain.

Then there is the fact that men ejaculate with a fair amount of force. Semen can easily squirt six to twelve inches beyond the end of the penis. During sex, your uterus tilts, aligning the entrance of the uterus toward the end of the penis, and simultaneously forming a small depression below the cervix (the entrance to the uterus). Some semen may enter the uterus directly from the ejaculation, but a fair quantity will flow into the depression. After sex, the uterus returns to its original position, but this places the cervix directly into the depression. This mechanism allows more sperm to enter the uterus, increasing the chance of pregnancy.

Some women think they can cleverly avoid these problems by douching (using a liquid to flush out the vagina). What they fail to realize is that as the liquid enters, it pushes some of the semen further inwards. Instead of preventing a pregnancy, they can actually speed the journey of the sperm into the uterus.



As mentioned before, one of the purposes of sx is the creation of children. Men and women´ s bodies contain numerous features to see that the purpose takes place. When people engage in sex outside the bounds of marriage and then try to hinder the natural result, they often fail to hide the consequence of their sin.