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Waiting to try:i´ m so depressed, plz help anyone
2007-03-06
Name: tina



hi all,
i' m TTC from past 3 months.i got my periods today.it feels horrible.cant stop crying.i' m getting very scared & worried too.plz tell does this mean whether i have any problem in fertility.i' m getting all these weird feelings that i may not be fertie.should i consult a fertility specialist now?we r doing everything right.we were having intercourse on my most fertile days.i used to keep pillow below my butt & not get up for few minutes. in spite of all these we failed. i dont know whats going wrong.if anyone has any good tips plz help me.shld i consult a fertility specialist or shld i wait?if anyone has good tips for TTC plz help me wid it. thank u all in advance
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2007-05-07
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Anonymous Name: preeti
Subject:  don´ t worry



You don' t need to worry, you only have been trying for 3 months. I have been married for 4 years and now i am 31. We didn' t plan for a baby bcoz of my husband' s traveling job. I have been trying for 3 months and this month it looks positive and i do have some symptoms. get an ovulation kit and find out your most ovulating days, it works)

Good luck
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2007-03-13
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Anonymous Name: N
Subject:  Same story



Being a doctor, Im finding this even more difficult to believe...especially after doing all the right things, right times etc...trying since 3 months and each time I see a new born baby on TV or in public, I want to cry...I just turned 30, started later in life, but gotta wait 3 more months, before I see a doctor...I have faith in myself and in God!

Just lost 8 kg in the hope that it' ll be easier to conceive

Babydust to you girl! And be positive for your coming cycle...Hugs!
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2007-03-13
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Anonymous Name: PS
Subject:  Get a checkup



I think it would be a good idea for your husband and you to get a check up done...why worry un-necessarily...

However keep in mind that sometimes it takes upto an year to conceive naturally...I conceived after 4 months...but I went and got myself and hubby check up after 2...just to soothe my fears about unfertility...

All the best...and try not to worry to much...
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2007-03-06
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Anonymous Name: hi
Subject:  hi



after 6 months of ttc i went to a gynec..she asked me ti wait for 6 more months bcuz i was 23..if u r more than 25 or nearing 30 shud consult doctor immediately other wise wait for 1 yr...now i am having 1 yr old baby after 1.5 yrs of ttc without any treatment..i conceived naturally....reduce ur weight first if u r overweight.
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