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Waiting to try:archie thanks alot & here is my update

2007-01-17

Name: diya dear archie,
thanks a lot for ur instant replies.thats such a help & gives a lot of emotional support.
yesterday itself by afternoon i got my periods.i was very dissapointed as i thought i shld conceive in this cycle itself.now after reading ur message i realised that there is nothing in our hands.so from now on i'll follow ur advice & try my best to remain calm & stress free....
once again thanks a lot!!!

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2007-01-19

Name: Meghnah
Subject:

my id

hello diya,
yup,4 more days.My eternal wait may cum 2 an end,or may continue...I'll be +ve
though:-)
Oh,in this website u cant post any ids with its perfect address.so we have 2 give our id this way... my id is-- itsgotttabeme attherateof yahoo dot com..just add my id on ur msgr,then automatically I'll get ur id,n I'll add u:-)..we will chat later on....take care..
lotsa baby dust on us...
lotsa luv
magie

2007-01-17

Name: Meghnah
Subject:

Be cool,dont stress:-)

hello diya,
I can understand you very well coz since 2 months I'm facing this..Did
evrything rite,so thought THIS TIME I'M PREGNANT\" ..infact I used 2 get some symptoms too(though missing the period is the best symptom 2 confirm that ur
pregnant)like tenderbreast,slight cramping in the stomach..but always that red thingie wud dissapoint me..I used 2 get my periods.All those symptoms may be were the stress built up in my mind,that I shd be pregnant..May be I used 2 stress myself.I posted same kinda question on this site,N I got reply saying that during this time ie TTC we should be stress free.We should njoy SEX...Be positive.Keep our HEALTH right n TRUST God.Sincerely pray to God,n also chant that mantra daily.I'm sure ,Almighty will sail us across this very soon.Definately he will answer our prayers n bless us with healthy baby soon.

Lemme also share this info with you--Study says that-# Nearly 50 percent of couples conceive during the first 3 months.
# About 75 percent of couples conceive during the first 6 months.
# Up to 90 percent of couples conceive during the first year.
So still theresz time..anyways some Things u shd take care while in TTC-
#Dont take any stress,be relaxed.
# To optimize your chances of getting pregnant, after your partner ejaculates,
remain on your back with your hips elevated for 20-30 minutes n also try keeping a pillow below ur ass.
# The woman-on-top position isn't great for pregnancy, since ejaculate may flow
out.

loads of baby dust on us..All the best,keep smiling,be happy always..hoping to cu n myself soon in the due date board:-)be positive n calm till then:-)..Remember Failure is a stepping stone to Success.Hoping that we are very very near to our SUCCESS...All the best again..
loads of luv..meghna

2007-01-19

Name: diya
Subject:

hi meghnah,
hmm, so 5 more days for ur next period dates...all the best!! keep my fingers crossed.but plz dont get tensed abt it.just remain calm & keep urself busy for these days.its true that u get ur periods bcoz of stress. my cycle is 25-28 days, but bcoz of the stress i had put on,i got my periods at 23 days itself.this was the 1st time ever i got my periods so early.so plz remain calm & keep urself occupied with something else.
i'm sure u'll have a good news for us soon....
we can definately chat.i tried to give u my chat ID here, but it says u cant post ur email addresses here.it didnt let me do that.so tell me how can we share our chat ID's?may be we can fix a time here on Indiaparenting chat room,meet there & try to share our yahoo msng ID's there.anyways, do let me know abt it....
so take good care of ur self....
lots of baby dust on us
love
diya

2007-01-18

Name: Meghnah
Subject:

nice to meet you too

hello diya,
hello diya,
Dont praise me so much,donno whetehr I deserve them or not?As we both are sailing in the same boat,I can very well understand what ur going thru right now.I donno why,I felt like replying to you,may be coz we both have similar kinda experience,n still we both r waiting for that SUCCESS to cum our way,our thoughts tend to gel:)..Whenever I read ur posts I feel whatever I feel n felt ur writing,infact if u check my previous posts u'll cum 2 know I've written same kinda things like u wrote.For that matter who ever is in this TTC board feel the ditto,same anxiety,same stress blah blah blah.I know that..Just that some share their views here n sum dont..we both belong to the former category n ther4 I feel we gel so well.

My first month of TTC I cried when I got my periods,got support 4m one of my friend here..evn I bugged my hubby,like the way u thought evn I felt may be I'm not fertile.All this silly thoughts were cuming...My hubby explained coz I was stressed out 2 much I got my periods n that it had nothing 2 do with the fertilty thing..He asked me 2 be positive,evn when I posted the question on this website I got the same reply..n when I luked at the data saying healthy couples might take a3 months to year
to conceieve I got a huge sigh of relief.Hope u 2 will be releived now...

hmm I have 5 more days 2 wait for my next period..hoping I dont get it this time...If it cumes too its okies,I know God will give My SUCCESS very soon...Just want 2 be postive n hoping that 4m u too...be positive God will surely answer our prayers:-)

Btw we can chat if u want....
lotsa baby dust on us
lotsa luv..magie

2007-01-18

Name: diya
Subject:

thanks u so much........

dear meghnah,
i dont know how to thank u.i always feel good after reading ur message.u always bring hope to me.i feel as though i'm talking to my best friend.thank u so much.ur message is always filled with so much love & compassion....
as u said i'll try to relax myself.i know nothing good comes out of stress,but cant help myself.as u said even i was experiencing pregnancy symptoms like breast tenderness & cramps.may be it was just cycological as i was hoping & looking for those symptoms.i thought since we had intercourse in fertile period it should just click,now i realise that its not the case.when i got my periods i was so dissapointed & cried so badly.this entire 2 weeks i was so stressed, i did nothing but looking for symptoms.i drove my hubby crazy that he too was getting pissed at me.when i got my periods i got scared & started doubting my fertility also.its really bad of me to stress out so much.
from now on i'll definately follow ur advice & try to remain calm.we can only try, everything else is in God's hands.i'll just pray & hope for the best!!!
thank u so much for ur moral support.i really hope with all my heart that we both be in due date board as soon as possible. u'll always be in my prayers.
all the very best to u !!!
keep in touch.its been very nice meeting u.hadnt met someone like u in a long time............
take care
lots of love
diya

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