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2006-06-04

Name: ke i lost my baby at 20 week. we toke pictures of her in i keep her in my room for hours. can some one please help me

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i lost my baby at 20 week. we toke pictures of her in i keep her in my room for hours. can some one please help me AJ replied. Hi KE,

I too lost my baby at 20 weeks to a problem called Non Immune Hydrops Syndrome, this happened in August 05. What happened to your baby? Also all of us on this board completely understand what you are going thru, you are not alone, we have all dealt with some pain or the other.God will take care.

Best Wishes,
AJ
mina replied. Hi ke

I don't know where you are from.. but believe me I understand you grief fully.. I have lost my baby at 37weeks..
It breaks your heart.. nothing else matters at all... it seems that we have reached the end of the world. There is nothing to look forward to..

I feeling these at the moment..

if you read my post, please reply... I am desperately seeking help.. I don't want to lose my mind.. but at the moment I think I will be better off if I am dead or insane. replied. Look for a local group devoted to child loss. People who have never lost a child have no understanding of how painful this is and they make no attempt to understand. people will be telling you to get over things long before you're ready and these are the people you should ignore. I know of women who can't not have friendships with people who have not lost kids because of this lack of understanding. Talk about your baby as often as you can and keep as many mementoes as you can. Make a place just for your baby even though they are not with you. A small box is great for keeping special things and in a ways becomes baby's place. I can not stress the need to find women who've been through a similar loss. No one can help you though this like someone who's been there before. There may be online communities if there is nothing local but do please find those who know what you're feeling.

I am sorry your baby died and I share your pain. Your baby was a person, a person very special to you. Just try to think of this as a life changed but not taken.

2006-07-27

Name: AJ
Subject:

i lost mine too at 20 weeks... i understand

Hi KE,

I too lost my baby at 20 weeks to a problem called Non Immune Hydrops Syndrome, this happened in August 05. What happened to your baby? Also all of us on this board completely understand what you are going thru, you are not alone, we have all dealt with some pain or the other.God will take care.

Best Wishes,
AJ

2006-06-22

Name: mina
Subject:

I know how it hurts

Hi ke

I don't know where you are from.. but believe me I understand you grief fully.. I have lost my baby at 37weeks..
It breaks your heart.. nothing else matters at all... it seems that we have reached the end of the world. There is nothing to look forward to..

I feeling these at the moment..

if you read my post, please reply... I am desperately seeking help.. I don't want to lose my mind.. but at the moment I think I will be better off if I am dead or insane.

2006-06-15

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Look for a local group devoted to child loss. People who have never lost a child have no understanding of how painful this is and they make no attempt to understand. people will be telling you to get over things long before you're ready and these are the people you should ignore. I know of women who can't not have friendships with people who have not lost kids because of this lack of understanding. Talk about your baby as often as you can and keep as many mementoes as you can. Make a place just for your baby even though they are not with you. A small box is great for keeping special things and in a ways becomes baby's place. I can not stress the need to find women who've been through a similar loss. No one can help you though this like someone who's been there before. There may be online communities if there is nothing local but do please find those who know what you're feeling.

I am sorry your baby died and I share your pain. Your baby was a person, a person very special to you. Just try to think of this as a life changed but not taken.

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