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Waiting to try:Hi Archie & others
2007-01-06
Name: Baby



I am 24 years old. Got married almost a 2 year.I lost my baby during delivery in sep 06.But I Love Kids very much,
But My husband is not intrested in having kids so soon. After this happend ...How many months i should wait to have baby Again..?
How should I convince my husband ? Please advise what is the goodtime to have baby after baby loss..?
Thanks...
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2007-01-06
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Anonymous Name: archie
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sorry to hear your loss, a still birth is lot more painful than miscarriage, you had felt it's existence for months!

There isn't thing like how long one should wait after loss for couples who have accepted the reality. But for those who are grieving it might be that they should not try until they have accepted reality.

Since you have accepted and seems emotionally strong to try then you need to convince reasons you want to have baby. I think your spouse was not ready either for last baby or he has not come out of the shock, don't get that he did not feel baby so he would come out sooner that you did. He might be afraid if mishap repeats. Assure him this is not likely to repeat, millions have had loss and delivered healthy babies after that.

If he is really sad for loss and not that he is not interested in baby then you can convince him by giving examples and by help ofyour gynecologist.

I consider your menses are back to routine.

Archie
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2007-01-08
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Anonymous Name: Baby
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Thank u so much for ur kind reply.
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