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Waiting to try:Cervical Incompetence! wud appreciate some advise
2006-12-19
Name: Sonu



I have the acute case of cervical incompetance.
Had 2 miscarriages.. both in 2nd trim. in the 2nd miscarriage i already had short cervix and has undergone surgery to put mcdonalds stitch.. but the baby did not survise more than 2 weeks after the stitch. its almost 4th months now i had a miscarriage. I m overweight now and trying to loose weight.
I am also on eltroxin 100mcg tab 1/2 a day.
Well.... keeping my fingers crossed before i TTC.
My husband has been very very supportive to me.
No idea how will i go thru the next pregnancy....
Sometimes it upsets me cause i use to think that I m very strong person both physically and mentally... but after these i feel i now not as strong as i thought i was. Have not cried though after our loss.......... but still...
I really do not know what am i writing..... just pouring my heart out as i cannot do infront of my H and family as they have remained strong coz i have shown strength....
Now keeping my fingers crossed.
Lets see... what future has for me
:)
I really wud appreciate if anybody has anything to suggest me....
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2006-12-19
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Anonymous Name: Divya
Subject:  I know how it feels



Hey Sonu,
Pls do not lose hope ! I know exactly how it feels cause I had the same experience last year dec. Pls trust urself and u can deliver a full term baby soon. We need all the wishes and strength anyone can give us ! I am also TTC for the last 1 year and havent yet succeeded :-(. Guess Vaishali and me are sailing in the same boat.
I am now consulting with Dr. Praveena in Bangalore. Where are u guys from ?
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2006-12-20
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Anonymous Name: Sonu
Subject:  Hi Divya



Thanks a tonne for the support.
I stay in Bangalore only. Are you talking about Dr Praveena Shenoi?
She is indeed a very gud doc.
U know she has successfully delivered quadruplets last year same time.
She is excellent in her work.
Gud choice dear.
Wishing u all the best for TTC.
I m yet to start TTC. Will try from March 07....:)
TC
KIT
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2006-12-19
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Anonymous Name: Vaishali
Subject:  I can understand



Hey Sonu,

Please remain strong...my heart goes out to you as I've also exp the same thing an year back. It was my first preg and i was heartbroken after that. Now I'm ttc once again, but i'm really skeptical now after hearing your case. when did u have ur mcdonalds stich done? my doc is sayin she'll put it at 12 weeks.
I've not conceived yet but m stressed. Where r u based and was ur gynaec good? Did you have comlete rest after the stich? Plz do share.
And dont lose heart...keep praying to God.
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2006-12-20
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Anonymous Name: Sonu
Subject:  Hi Vaishali



Thanks...
Please don't be disheartned hearing my case. As my case is very rare as doc says. I had put the stitch in between 11-12 week as there was shortening of cervix. and i had prematuraly ruptured the membranes so this thing happened.
You please don't get scared this is a rarest of cases which unfortunately happened to me.
The McDonalds stitch is safe and highly successful.
I took complete bed rest but my biggest enemy was worry and depression. So please avoid the same.
My gyneac is excellent in her prof.
You have to prepare yourself for the same.. which i m doing now.
Be strong and positive in all aspects of life .... i was too but then due to these situations had become -ve in life now i m fighting back and enjoying every day as it comes with support of my Hubby and family.
U too keep in touch and tc
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