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Hi saniya please be patient as you read this. I’m sooooooo ugly! The problem I have is that I got a ugly face. I get pimples and it leaves black circles behind it. And my face look like I’m 20 years old but i just turned 16. when I wash my face on my mouth side and my nose side I can see the white bit well I think it’s the dry bit. So I use fair and lovely coz I got nothing else to use then I use nivea on the dry bit later when I’m at school the whole face go oily and it’s look sooo ugly. Can you suggest me any home remedies so that I can get rid those dark circles and those ughle stuff and pimples from face. I live in Australia aand u know when English country people put make up their face look so nice so I wanna have my face like that by just using the natural stuff. Can you please suggest me any home remedies that I can put on my face in the morning and wash it off and go to school etc. without putting anything on my face. I want my face to look like, when people put make up and it’s really looks gorgeous I wanna have my face like that without putting any mae up on my face. And plez tell me how long I have to use that redemy. Please suggest a ready for pimples, pimbles black circles and all those ugly stuff on my face etcccc.
Suggest me a really good redemy.


Please suggest me the remedies stuff that I can get it in Australia please don’t suggest me anything like malai or turmeric power etc...


My other problem is I have uneven skin tonne I mean I have dark areas on my under arms, arms, neck etc. can you please recommend me a cream ( safe to use it).

p.s. I got no friends at school due to all this reasons,.no one love me in the world even the god doesbn’t love me if he love me then he would have solved my problems when I noticed that I got these problems. I’m planning to go to new school in semester-2 and hope to make new friends and hope 2 have a fresh start. Can you tell me really good remedies so that I have have my face and my skin in relly nice looking when I got the new school.

Lov u heaps.
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saniya replied. dear no name,
sorry for late reply.i was busy with projects,assigments and exams.
well,as far as ur problem is concerned,first of all,u need to have self confidence within urself.how do u expect others to respect u while u urself dont?u see,God has created u.How can He create something ugly?everybody is BEAUTIFUL!!!!!only those people who have stinky characters r ugly.the firsts tep u need to make is improve ur character.have faith within urself.ur inner beauty is something which will last ur lifetime.ur outer appearance will fade away.
think of any of ur friends.one is really pretty but has a bad character.the other is not so attractive in looks but is extremely sweet and kind n stuff.which one would u prefer?definitely,the second one.
let me put it this way,suppos eu receive a gitf.it has been wrapped beautifully with colourful,glittery wrapper.obviously,u would really like it.but when u open it up,u find that the gift is a stone.would u like it?i bet no.on the other hand,if u receive a gift wrapped in ordinary paper ar first sight,it might not seem so attractive but u uncover it to discover that it's a diamond.
the wrapper refers to ur outer,physical appearance while the gift refers to ur inner beauty.and believe me dear,that's all u need.
now let's find the slotuion to ur problems.i assume u have oily skin.firts of all,abandon all chemicals.tey must be having some side effects.next,start washing ur face with besan(gramflour),turmeric(just a pinch) and milk.turmeric is available at stores.check it out.or find an indian store somewhere.if it's unavailable still,then u can use besan and milk.use more besan than milk.wash ur face with this in the morning,evening and before going to bed.on waking up,drinkwarm water+1 tbsp honey+juice of half a lemon.
in addition,drink mint juice daily and if possible,bitter gourd juice as well.drink only 1/2 cup of these.eat lots of fresh fruits and vegetables.tomatoes,carrots and oranges will help u a lot.drink 8 to 10 glasses of water daily.exercise for 30 minutes daily and please wash ur face after sweating.sleep for 8 hours daily.sleep early and wake up early.
now,u need to apply a mask of fuller's earth+tomato juice+rose water.leave it on for 20 minutes and wash it off with cool water.another alternative mask would be gram flour(besan)+lemon juice+yogurt+turmeric(just a pinch).if turmeric is unavailable,leave it.the mask will work without it as well but it will take time.
before going to school,just spray rose water on ur face.make sure it's 100% natural rose water.
avoid all oily,sugary,fried foods,fizzy drinks,tea,coffee,etc..instead,drink fresh 100% natural juices like cocktail and orange carrot.
all this will take about 1-3 months to show results.depends on how strict u are.
friends dont have to be in school!i can be ur friend:) just gimme ur id and we can have a chat daily inshALLAH.i already have many contacts whom i met on this website.
u dont have to change ur school.looks cant gain u everything,character sure can!!!!! let ur classmates accept u for who u are and not for how u look.if u keep about being influenced by other people's attitude,u can never succeed as people r gonna discriminate u in every step of ur life.y dont u infulence them with ur character instead?be bold,be strong and u will soon realise,u r BEAUTIFUL!!!!!
im sure,once u modidy ur character,ur gonna win over many hearts.and always remember,ur family is always there for u especially ur mom.she is the one who is ur best friend and is there for u always..u just have to realise her presence and value it.try making her ur best friend.share everything with her.help her and have fun with her company..ur gonna luvvvv it!!!
with best wishes,loadsa luv n prayers,
urs,
saniya xoxoxoxoxox sana khan replied. hi,
My name is Sana and i can totally relate to how u feel :)....i was once in the same position as u r in and i felt like cryin all the time and i was very depressed and sad...
but then i realized i can either be sad and not do anything or i can be happy and start doin somethin abt my problem :)....so this is what i did and trust me i have seen achieved results which are so great that i still cant believe my eyes :)...
so this is what i did and do :)
1. rub my body with lemon atleast twice a week and moisturize it with any good moisturizer everyday
2. u usaid u got an oily face...sweety...use egg white and mix it with few drops of lemon and wash it till it dries off..this will tighten ur pores and there will be less oil on ur face:)...u can use this mask as many times as u want:)...
3. take besan, a pinch of haldi and make a paste by using lemon juice and put it on ur face or whereever u desire till it dries off , then wash with cold water :)...do this on daily basis
4.and as u mentioned u got dark underarms etc. rub it with lemon juice but dont rub lemon juice after shaving or removing hair over there with any other method....:)and yeah underarm start waxing instead of shavin or using creams :)...ill strongly recommend not to wax urself but to get it done by experts becoz u mite pull it a bit too hard causin urself to bleed :)...and besides it aint easy to do waxin under the arms :)
5. for neck...take yogurt add salt innit a generous amount of salt and rub it on ur neck for 15 mins then wash...and also use the besan , haldi and lemon mask on ur darker areas:)
6. drink mint water everyday first thing in the morning :)
7. eat as many fresh fruits and veggies as possible
8. drink atleast 8 glasses of water every dya this will beautify ur skin...ull be amazed :)
last but notleast dun use fair and lovely this will only produce more oil on ur face causin ur pores to open more :)...
i hope i have helped annd one last very important thing that i want u to keep in ur mind is to be happy with who u r , i wud rather have ppl around me who care for me and are sincere to me coz of who i m rather then being surrounded by ppl who are my friends just because of my looks :)
hugs u tightly *
luv SANA:)


P.S. start using cold water for ur face , dun use warm water becuase cold water will help ur pores to tighten and warm water will open ur pores as a result more oil will be produced :)