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After miscarriage/abortion how many months should we need to wait to try for next pregency?.

Actually I had a Journey when i was at 6th week. That night i had bleeding :-(,when consulted docted she suggested for Ultrasoning test-The report stated that incomplete aboration.
Based on this the docted made a complete abortion. So please help me if any one had came across the same.

Inspite of my hubby's/docter's advice i had to travel that day, Even thou he didn't scold me after abortion i am scared of next pregency:how may more month should i need to wait: will there be again a problem:lot: and lots

When asked the docter she said as of now until next periods don't have any intercourse, and will inform you as on. This is making me as well my hubby scared.

Please give some Courage/Knowledge so that i can talk to my hubby regarding my pregency.

Regards,
Nirmala archie replied. Nirmala,
you confused me, why did you expect your husband to scold you when you went through miscarriage? Only because you travelled against his Drs. advice?

In part you may have made mistake crossing Drs. advice but your husband yelling at you would not get back what you guys lost. he may have felt equal pain and in reality mother needs consolation rather than anger. I think your husband took it with patience and perhaps he knew it is not a time to scold at you rather he should support you by not showing anger, real gentleman's act.

If you went through Dilation and Curatage then you will have to wait for three full cycles before trying to conceive.

Chances that you may not experience any complication. May be even if you had not traveled you would have lost that baby, it's just that sometime a few things are tought to explain.

I have seen cases who have had early miscarriage like yours or in second trimester and they led healthy pregnancies and proud mothers today.

Leave the loss behind and think positive and stay healthy, listen to Drs.

Archie