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Hi,
I am a bubbly happy newly married girl. Ours is an arranged marriage. I am a housewife living with my in laws. We are a fairly rich family with a good business. My hubby is very sweet too but I don't know what happens to him in the bed? He simply doesn't show any enthusiasm for sex. Its not that he is impotent as he really satisfies me when he relents to have sex. Otherwise he would come and doze off to sleep. And then, if there is a cricket match then you might as well forget it.
I am really sick of his business parties where I feel bored. He also doesn't take me out too often.
He is really short of words and not too romantic. But you should see how he talks to the college going girl next doors.... you won't find a more romantic man on this earth!!!
Why does he eye other girls when he has me. I am not boasting but I am quite good looking with a good figure. Is there any medicine that will drive him crazy so that he craves for sex all the time?
Do you also feel the same ladies?
Tassy replied. Hey,
Try first knowing his sensitive points in the body, also take an initiative to know how to stimulate them, how best he gets seduced, and take the initiative to use this trick in the best possible way. Make a show as if you are simply trying to sooth him by caressing him to lull him to a sleep, while truly go ahead and seduce him. Check out what stimulates his senses, lingerie, perfumes, lights, music or talk …… Use that too ….. believe me he will die for you every moment
N.Y.C. replied. Why be jealous? He married you, not those other girls.

helper replied. hi chanchal,
my suggestion wud be talk to him about ur desires ...sometimessit with him in bed and hold his hand tell him abut ur very sweet or wildest fantacy.

as u said u stay with ur in laws so some romantic dinners are not possible at hme u ppl can go for walk after food if u can that will be a very good time for talking .
earlier my husband was like that but now he cant sleep with out sex .and if he doesnt initiates u can initiate it .wear sexiest lingeries and dim ur room lights play some romantic music ,spray some good frgnance ..
hope these all works.