hi all,
i am ttc. but everything is going wrong.everyone in my house is sick, including my maid. non stop guests since the last 2 months. parents have comee over now. they want to go for a short vacation somewhere. i cant even tell them that i am ttc so given my past experiences i dont want to travel at this stage. many birthday parties. i was so overworked that i started having trouble breathing. mom just had a hysterectomy so she has to get a lot of rest. i dont think i will conceive now. will have to wait for another 2-3 months for everything to quiten down. i had just gone to talk to the security guard and saw my other maid vomitting. somethings wrong in bangalore????
neha
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hi all,
i am ttc. but everything is going wrong.everyone in my house is sick, including my maid. non stop guests since the last 2 months. parents have comee over now. they want to go for a short vacation somewhere. i cant even tell them that i am ttc so given my past experiences i dont want to travel at this stage. many birthday parties. i was so overworked that i started having trouble breathing. mom just had a hysterectomy so she has to get a lot of rest. i dont think i will conceive now. will have to wait for another 2-3 months for everything to quiten down. i had just gone to talk to the security guard and saw my other maid vomitting. somethings wrong in bangalore????
neha
Meghna replied. hello neha,
Just wanted to ask,how r u doing now?Is ur maid allrite?what did u think of ur TTC?Dont take me wrong,I just care for u,thr4 I asked..If ur okie only u can answer me back..
ttc replied. Hey Neha,
I can imagine how you must feel.. after all the excitement you go through when the 2 of you decide to start ttc, you never think you are going to have such a hectic schedule once you start. I went through the same thing after convincing hubby for 1 yr the month we were ready to try... there was a wedding.. parents visiting.. taking them out.. shopping with them.. social gatherings that could not be avoided.. and the most hectic social life ever noted. even if we had such a hectic schedule before, it only struck me when we were ttc. Though i am still waiting to concieve... i am just taking every day as it comes. i am sure you will be much more relaxed in your next cycle..
good luck and lots of babydust your way
Meena replied. Meghna is right - Count your blessings Neha - you really want to get pregnant but dont think too hard on that subject and at the same time try not be sensitive on some issues - Let go of some day to day issues- I knw its easier said than done - I am an over-sensitive human being myself - but trying to concentrate on other things helped - like i started reciting slokas everyday etc Wishing you the very best!
Meghnah replied. Hello Neha,
I may sound very philosophical,but this is the ultimate truth,\" Whatever happens in our life,is for a good reason only\" ..Initially we might not realise it,but later on with the passing time,we realise that, things happned for our good only...So is the case here,What your are considering wrong now,may be after few months you'll soon realise that it was for your own good..Basically,if you are in TTC stage,you have to be cool and calm.You shouldnt worry a lot for trivial reasons,or for that matter any reason.If your mInd n body is calm,you'll surely get positive results in your TTC efforts.Dont over stress yourself thinking of things which are outside your limit or purview.No matter you worry or not,things will happen the way it ought to happen,then WHY worry and spoil your health unnecessarily?See u uneccasarily spoilt your health(ie u said u had breathing problem)thinking of things,wherein u cannot do anything.(Moreover I've seen this in life,worry comes frequently to those persons,who always keeps worrying.).If u worry bout ur maid,ur worry will not make the maid allrite..So simply be kool.Think of things which keep u happy.Do things what u like.Basically keep urself happy:-)Remember neha, As nights are accompanied by mornings,so are our worries...Soon u'll c urself to be one happy person... All the best...
meghna:-)
2006-11-19
#1
Name: Meghna Subject: how ru?
hello neha,
Just wanted to ask,how r u doing now?Is ur maid allrite?what did u think of ur TTC?Dont take me wrong,I just care for u,thr4 I asked..If ur okie only u can answer me back..
2006-11-21
#2
Name: neha Subject: hi
hi
have invited you on my yahoo messenger. we can chat anytime we both are online.
neha
2006-11-21
#3
Name: Meghna Subject: we can surely chat
hello neha,
Yup,even here, weekends I cannot cum online.So weekdays afternoon say anytime after 1.30 pm to 5.pm is fine by me..My yahoo id is-- itsgotttabeme at the rate of yahoo dot com ...wus ur yahoo id?If possible tomorrow we can chat..
2006-11-20
#4
Name: neha Subject: meghana
hi,
yes lets fix up a time so we can chat.whats your yahoo id. but cant make it on weekends, weekdays afternoon is fine with me.
sorry for the hsg question, it was meant for meena.
neha
2006-11-20
#5
Name: Meghna Subject: we both can chat if u dont mind
hello neha,
I used 2 stay in blore,but now I dont.But I'm a kannadiga..I keep cuming 2 blore..Do u work?or r u a homemaker? We both can chat sumday on yahoo, so if u dont mind cud u plz gimme ur yahoo id,then I'll put u on my yahoo msgr n we both can catch up on chat. btw u had mentioned sumthing abt hsg..so wus this hsg?.
2006-11-20
#6
Name: neha Subject: meghna
hi,
feels good to write3 to you.
do you stay somewhere near bangalore?
i too agree with you.... job offers.......theres lots of time for that many more opportunities too.
all the best this month.
neha
2006-11-19
#7
Name: Meghna Subject: neha
hello neha,
U had told in ur msg that u wanna postpone ur TTC for 2,3 months, thr4 I asked ,what did u decide on this?ie whether Ur gona postpone ur TTC or not?Coz in my another reply I told u,the problems I faced ie though I'm in TTC stage,like u,I 2 had so many obstructions cumin my way,to top it all,I got a very gud job offer too.But all this didnt force me 2 procastinate my TTC.First evn I thought I'll postpone it for 2,3 months.But then Sumhow I felt,once we start postponing our precious TTC stage,in the future surely we will get many more reasons to postpone it for another6,7 mnths,who knows may be 1year also.Like the way u said,problems will never end.So ther4 once decided that ur going 2 ttc stage,cum what may dont change on that decision..Problems will cum,n go....n With loved ones(ie sis,papa )theresz no misunderstandings which cannot be solved.I bet they'll forget it,provided u2 forget it,n wont let it affect u..in ur thoughts n in ur words:-)be happy..Do things which u like...Sorry if I'm preaching u..Donno why,I feel like writing to you..BTW do u work? I had 2 travel ,(ie had 2 cum 2 blore,without my dear hubby)ther4 missed my fertile days,once I was back at my place guests had cum down..n things like that(similiar to urs)so thr4 I 2 didnt conceieve:-(But this month I'll put my heart n soul..btw wus hsg?
2006-11-19
#8
Name: neha Subject: meghna
hi,
these days are so difficult? what wih all the new misunderstanding between me and sis,dad.
maid is better now.
mom not well.
never ending.
anyway i dint understand your question? how is my ttc??? what does that mean.
i dont think i might have conceived this month,with all the stress.
when is your hsg scheduled?
neha
2006-11-17
#9
Name: ttc Subject: Worry is a big time spoiler
Hey Neha,
I can imagine how you must feel.. after all the excitement you go through when the 2 of you decide to start ttc, you never think you are going to have such a hectic schedule once you start. I went through the same thing after convincing hubby for 1 yr the month we were ready to try... there was a wedding.. parents visiting.. taking them out.. shopping with them.. social gatherings that could not be avoided.. and the most hectic social life ever noted. even if we had such a hectic schedule before, it only struck me when we were ttc. Though i am still waiting to concieve... i am just taking every day as it comes. i am sure you will be much more relaxed in your next cycle..
good luck and lots of babydust your way
2006-11-16
#10
Name: Meena Subject: Hi Neha
Meghna is right - Count your blessings Neha - you really want to get pregnant but dont think too hard on that subject and at the same time try not be sensitive on some issues - Let go of some day to day issues- I knw its easier said than done - I am an over-sensitive human being myself - but trying to concentrate on other things helped - like i started reciting slokas everyday etc Wishing you the very best!
2006-11-16
#11
Name: Meghnah Subject: As nights r accompanied by mornings,so r our worri
Hello Neha,
I may sound very philosophical,but this is the ultimate truth,\" Whatever happens in our life,is for a good reason only\" ..Initially we might not realise it,but later on with the passing time,we realise that, things happned for our good only...So is the case here,What your are considering wrong now,may be after few months you'll soon realise that it was for your own good..Basically,if you are in TTC stage,you have to be cool and calm.You shouldnt worry a lot for trivial reasons,or for that matter any reason.If your mInd n body is calm,you'll surely get positive results in your TTC efforts.Dont over stress yourself thinking of things which are outside your limit or purview.No matter you worry or not,things will happen the way it ought to happen,then WHY worry and spoil your health unnecessarily?See u uneccasarily spoilt your health(ie u said u had breathing problem)thinking of things,wherein u cannot do anything.(Moreover I've seen this in life,worry comes frequently to those persons,who always keeps worrying.).If u worry bout ur maid,ur worry will not make the maid allrite..So simply be kool.Think of things which keep u happy.Do things what u like.Basically keep urself happy:-)Remember neha, As nights are accompanied by mornings,so are our worries...Soon u'll c urself to be one happy person... All the best...
meghna:-)
2006-11-17
#12
Name: Meghnah Subject: dont procastinate
hello neha,
Anything in life is not difficult to follow,provided u shd be very determined to do it.Cmmon neha u've decided to go to this TTC stage,now dont stop it.coz once u procastinate it,u'll get sevral reasons to procastinate it further..If u dont mind can I ask,how many years have u been married?Luk at me,its been 3years since we got married.All this while my dear hubby,didnt want kids.Before 2 month we decided to have a baby.But blv me,since we decided ,I had lotta obstructions cuming way(like must attend functions,guests cuming,unavoidable travelling n blah blah blah)But these didnt deter my decision.Coz I know once I postpone it,I'll get more reasons in the future 2 procastinate.Therfore I'm still in TTC stage..I missed my fertile days due to this.But anyways these didnt change my decision..I'll keep trying till I conceieve... Hope u to will do this....Sorry if I bored u,by my thoughts,But blv me neha I'm telling this for ur gud:-)
2006-11-17
#13
Name: neha Subject: meena ,megnah and ttc
hi,
what you say is true, but difficult to follow.
my parents stay far off so they visit me only once in a while so i might as well make the most of it.
my maid lives with us. so now that she is not well i have to do all the work as well as look after her. i am overworked.
the sholkas you had told me about. now i dont even have the time for them.
neha.
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