Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

My periods are regular around 31 days cycle. I have used OPKs couple of times in the last 8 months of trying. Besides we have been having intercourse regularly. I had ultrasound and pelvic exam in last one year and everything looked normal. When I had the ultrasound i was about to ovulate in next couple of days, thats what the doctor told me. So I think with OPK's and ultrsound, I am ovulating. The ultrasound did not find any fibroids or ovarian cysts. If we have PCOS would ultrasound detect it? I am getting very stressed as to why I am not getting pregnant. my husband has not done SA, but he eats pretty healthy and exercises regularly. I don't know why we are not getting pregnant. I am 27 and my husband is 31 yrs old. Did anyone of you take so much time to conceive your first baby. Meera replied. Hi
I' m 27 yrs and married for 3 years. I was desperately trying to conceive for around 2 years..I went to several docs, infertility specialist, had laproscopy, my hubby had SA done and all reports showed everything was fine. I had very regular periods of 28 days and even the docs did not give me a satisfying answer as to why i' m not able to conceive.

Some docs told me its stress, but I know how difficult it is to not get stressed when such a thing happens.
But beleive me..IT WAS STRESS. and ofcourse GOD' s miracle. The month when i least expected, it happened! I had just surrendered to GOD and got rid of my worries for once and just relaxed thinking GOD has a plan for me and it is always the BEST. and bhooooom I conceived!

There were times when i cried almost every month feeling so depressed but then I felt turning our depression towards GOD and trying to maintain a positive attitude definitely helps. I know it is very easy to be said than done but I' ve gone thru all this and now am happy. So dont worry. try to concentrate on smthng that u like and GOD will help u!

All the Best.
Sajni replied. hi I had met with 2 miscrages , now i m also trying since last 3-4 months, but all our efforts became fruitless, i m very depressed now. best of luck 2 u, and wish me also all the best for future Genie Mumbai replied. Pls dont get dissapointed, even we are trying for last 8 months, without any success...I have got my CHS done...and its absolutely normal..My husbands sperm count is also normal..my age is 27 and his 30, Presntly Im on tablet \";duphaston\"; lets see what happens...wish u best of luck and for me too. Lets pray that we will be pregnant soon...and Just keep our faith in GOD gauri replied. hi pinky,
i m gauri n i m also facing the same problem we are also trying for last 8 months but with no result every month i think i m pregnant but it ends up with no result. Dont worry beleive in GOD n everything will be alrite i know it is very painfully but 1 thing is clear we cant hepl it it is all in the hands of GOD.so be happy n all the best. do tell me if u concive
take care
gauri Nikk's replied. Hey,

Don't worry pinki....it will happen soon...its just a matter of time....I too have been trying for the last 8mths(you cud read my story in ttc board) I too have not been able to conceive...i have got all possible tests done except HSG(fallopian tubes)..and my hubby got his SA done too and everythg is normal...still i don't know what's wrong...just have faith in god ..we are exactly sailing in the same boat...our ages also are the same and our hubby's too....so just keep trying and keep using OPK's ..i too have been doing the same past 8mths...rest leave it to god. Take care. Lots of baby dust on all of us!!!
Cheers!!
Nikk's bamboo replied. Pinky

I had unexplained infertility and It took 5 years for me to conceive.You will get pregnant..Just take a break and relax for few months as when we calculate the days we get stressed out.You can go for laprascopy to see if tere is any tubal blockage.

Cheers
Bamboo Kerry replied. I tried for the first time for 12 months then lost the pregnancy at 11 weeks. Then tried another 12 months when a friend who had been to see a specialist suggest I book an appointment. We had all the checks and there were no problems and no reason why. Did a course of clomid for 2 months fell pregnant the 2nd month and now have a baby girl. Then we went on to look another two pregnancies last year. I am now pregnant again and hope that this is the one will be ok. I fell the hardest part was the waiting game and how it plays with your mind and the stress you put yourself under. I know it is hard to hear this cause I heard it all the time when we were trying but you need to give in to the process. The mind plays powerful games and stress and worry is not constructive to your goal of what you are trying to achieve. I suggest giving it a few more months and then see someone who can help if that's what makes you feel better. I felt it was helpful for me to put a time frame on this cause I also kept counting the months away. Don't give up just surrender to the process and trust that the baby will come when the timing is right. Best wishes! Subhanshi replied. dont worry i m facing the same problem
be optimistic god ll hepl u n me soon