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Miscarriage and Child Loss:plese help me
2006-03-04
Name: anunlucky mother



Hello
Do u people know anything about neural tube defect.
Please respond
Am desperately in need of information abt that as I lost my first baby due to this.
anybody having similar experience
Please help me
An unlucky mother

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2006-09-19
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Anonymous Name: me
Subject:  good ob



dr vidyamani is the best in bangalore 08026561724 she is also interested in preconceptional care so please go to her one year before planning your next preganncy also if you are already pregnant . i have had 2 miscarraiges and i found her to be the best she is patient also her diagnosis is good
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2006-09-19
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Anonymous Name: me
Subject:  good ob



dr vidyamani is the best in bangalore 08026561724 she is also interested in preconceptional care so please go to her one year before planning your next preganncy also if you are already pregnant . i have had 2 miscarraiges and i found her to be the best she is patient also her diagnosis is good
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2006-03-06
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Anonymous Name: K.Radha
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Hey There,

PLS Dont think of yourself as an unlucky mother... You had a lovely baby and as much as I am sorry you lost ur child please remember how happy you felt when you first found out you were pregnant. I think the best way to get through things like this is to remember the good things... I found a few statistics about the chances of a recurrance of NTD...
*3 percent if you had a child with a NTD.
*2 percent if you had an aunt or uncle with a NTD.
*about 0.5 percent if your cousin had a NTD.
Are there any other cases in yours or your husbands family history? 3% might sound like alot but I can help but think that 97% chance of it never happening is pretty good. My baby died from a cord accident and my chances are the same and I keep on thinking about that 97% because I know just how scary that 3% sounds. All I can say is please be positive and remember to take folate... I hope & pray that your next pregnancy produces a very happy and healthy child.
Love kate
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2006-03-07
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Anonymous Name: K.Radha
Subject:  here's a link



Here is the artical that cited those statistics... I hope you will find the information there useful Shiny. Stay smiling :D
www(DOT)childrenshospital(DOT)org/az/Site1319/mainpageS1319P0(DOT)html
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2006-03-06
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Anonymous Name: SA
Subject:  thank u



hello
so we r sailing in the same boat .from where did u get all these informations?
as per my present knowledge we dont hav a family history of NTD.still we had to go thriugh all this.can u suggest any other precautions other than folic acid.?
we will pray for a healthy baby .keep in touch it was nice to hear from u
love shiny
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2006-03-05
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Anonymous Name: friend
Subject:  easy to get folate in india



if you are based in india, it is very easy to get 5 mg folate even without prescription. but do check with doc if it is ok.
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2006-03-05
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Anonymous Name: unlucky mother
Subject:  thanks



Dear friend
Thank u very much for ur message, It gives me some reassurance. took folic acid after confirming my pregnancy.now the doc has advised me to take that well before next pregnancyI would like to inform u that, I suspect the reason to be folate deficiency as I am unable to find any other reason; I came to know that it could be due to genetic reason as well. But I find it can be confirmed only after genetic counseling.
I belong to Cochin n my husband is working at bangalore, I will be indebted to u, if u could name a good n experienced OB in Blore. Myself n husband r so worried that we don’t know wat to do. We want to prepare well for the next pregnancy well. Rest lies in god’s hands.
Hope u n ur brother r doing well n also ur mother . I only knew wat she must have gone through at that time, with out medical science not so much advanced if its in India.
Waiting to hear from u
shiny
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2006-03-05
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Anonymous Name: friend
Subject:  happened in my family



hello,

my mother had me first, a fullterm baby with NTD and then my brother. this was in the 70's when not enough was known about NTD. my brother with NTD passed away the same day that he was born. but my brother after that is just fine.

although the recommended level for women is 0.4 mg, i know that docs will prescribe upto 4-5 mg for someone at risk. i don't know where you are located. can you consult a high risk OB or perinatalogist for a second opinion? they will sometimes run tests to check for methionine and related blood levels to get a better picture.

i wish you the best. i have experienced what you are going through. but the one thing which is your favor is that you knew the reason for your loss. you can do something about it.

hope you will soon have a bundle of joy.
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2006-03-05
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Anonymous Name: K.Radha
Subject:  Alwasy here 4 support



Hi There,

Welcome to this forum. I'd like to tell you how sorry I am to hear that you lost your child. I don't know what it must have been like to you to loose your very first child but I have an understanding of your loss. I think everyone here would want to tell you the same.

From what I know of NTD it is a defect in the development of the babies brain or spine... It can be prevented by the introduction of extra folate in your diet. has your doctor talked with you about your chances & prevention of this happening again?

You need to take folate before you're pregnant & during your pregnancy. You need about .4mg before pregnancy and .8mg while you're pregnant. A good way to get this is through eating dark leafy veges, dried beans & peas.

You can get folate enriched cereals also. The easiest way to ensure you're getting enough is to simply take a suppliment containing folic acid. All the best sweety and I hope that you're soon pregnant with a healthy baby.

Love Kate

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2006-03-05
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Anonymous Name: an unlucky mother
Subject:  thanks a lot



Hi kate
Thanks a lot
I took folic acid after confirming my pregnancy.now the doc has advised me to take that well before next pregnancy.
I want to prepare well for the next, I want to collect as much information abt that , abt people with similar exp,abt their 2nd pregnancy and all. If u know something abt this please do pass it to me. Am desperately in need of that.
Thanks for the love n concern u showed.
Love n thanks once again.
Hope to hear frm u
shiny
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