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Hi
I am agin here witha problem,Earlier it was like getting periods irregularly,Now it's other way.
JUNE-18-25
JUly-11-29
August-7-18
I had been to the same Doctor last month for the overbldding problem in july.she told me to take BCP pills and said people with PCOS have this problem .Is it so Archie??Also i don't want to take BCP bcs i think this pill has lot of side effects,is there no other medicine which can be given to put prevent this.
U know the reason for abnormal papsmear was sthing else the papsmear sample was not enuf ,then i was so surprised why they sent me that letter.I am plaaning to meet the physician next time incase i need to do this anytime though i didn't do it again there,they has really scared me for that.
One more thing is lost 7 pounds from july to august mid due to the workout and diet,could this be the reason for the odd cycles.
iam happy to get the periods evrymonth without pills but not this way as i get irritated,Extremely tired ,cranky and severe mood swings on these days.
When should i meet the doctor incase something like this happens next month??
Also seeing the dates above when can i know wat are ovulation dates incase this month i want to try??
i will change the doctor next time for sure as i didn't like her response for the second time.
MY doubt is if i take BCP ,wat is the guarantee that it won't happen like this if i stop ,also can it be taken incase i want to TTC?
I am sure u would give me a explanation for all this.
Thankyou sooo much for hearing once again.
Naveena.
How is Advait doing??,does he go to day care when u go to work??
Yashvita is so fussy with food,i dont know wat to do and with all this happening i am extremely irritated and i lose my temper on her(poor thing and i feel sorry after the whole episode)
Thanku sooo much for hearing .
Naveena

Naveena replied. Thankyou Archie for the input.
For TTc with these Cycle days ,How do i plan??
Do i need to get the ovulation kit or is it too late??
THanks in Advance.
LUv to Advait. archie replied. Naveena,
I think what you are facing is consequences of exercise and if you want to ttc you might want to wait for three more cycles to see how the bleeding progresses in them and also whether the cycles get of some regular length. Yes you are getting them once a month but the length is erratic still.

Because you were overweight and exercise is making you loose some weight you might experience prolonged bleeding and there is a chance that taking BCP will control it. There is no guarantee to assure that soon after taking off BCP it will not recur, I would not swear on that.

Feeling cranky and tired is all due to excessie bleeding. As long as it does stop in 10 days or so and not continued for all the month you should be OK.

I suspect you will get cycles regularized with your exercise and not much to worry on medical front. yes, at times BCP are strong and as they will help controlling bleeding it might also have minor side effects and one must weigh requirments while choosing this option.

This brought episode brought back memories of my own. When we started ttc I think I suffered a lot with fever, my BBT would shoot somewhat more than it should. Two cycles even I did face physiological cysts adding to fever and trust me I don't think I enjoyed those cycles except a week (from the last day of menses to ovulation). I knew I could get treated for or get on to BCP but while were on ttc did not wanted that option. Mainly because BCP sometime will not help controlling symptoms but after taking it off will add to irregular cycles. I prefered to remove cyst and with God's grace soon after that in 2 cycles Advait was conceived.

See if this cycle offers some reduced bleeding and also see if you want to get on to seriously on ttc. If so may have to bear with trouble. Otherwise you can start BCP for a cycle or two and continue exercise and see if it helps in following cycles.

Advait is not easy when it comes to food. He is tall but thin built and the reason is he hardly eats like children supposed to be. Feeding him is a huge job and I think will be fine as he learns it when he is with other kids. NO Advait is not going to school yet, will stay home for another year and next year onward he will go to school. We teach him at home.

Archie