Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hello,

i am new on this site.came to know from my close friend Raveena who is in nov expecting board.
i just had missed miscarriage before 3 weeks.initially few days after miscarriage was very hard .couldnt beleive that i lost my baby.had lot of guilt and anger. hated god for a while.after miscarriage i closed the doors of god s room.didnt light diya for days.removed lot of frustration on my hubby.


had immense support from my hubby ,raveena and her hubby .did nt leave me alone crying.and i really feel blessed to have wonderful people around me.
there were wonderful encouraging messages from our Archie who is so adorable,Aarti,pallavi,karuna,sheetal.reading there messages gave me that i can conceive.thanks to all for your support.


i have accepted the fact and moving on with life.we are recently married and wants to njoy every moment of my life.

now we are anxiously waiting for the arrival of raveena s baby.she has gone thru lot of pain and she deserves every happiness.i really feel without raveena i would nt have come out of this worst crisis so easily.full credit goes to her.

really feeling good today .and i beleive that god is looking over us .

take care,

Rohini Aarti replied. Hi Rohini,

This is so strange. I am having a two-week break from work so I casually visited this board today after atleast a month. Maybe I was meant to see your message.

Hope you are physically recovering from your miscarriage. Give yourself time to recover emotionally. When you are alone with your husband it is a mixed blessing. Sometimes it feels good because you can take out all the frustration on him without interference from elders. But other times you will miss their company.

Raveena had indicated that you have organized several trips. Have a nice time exploring this country like a newlywed. There might be days when you feel that you are extremely sad again. Just take it one day at a time. You are not alone in this journey.

My prayers and best wishes, Aarti