You are here: Home > Message Boards > Planning a Baby >  Adoption >question on adoption

Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

 
Adoption:question on adoption
2005-09-19
Name: SR



Hello all,
I just want to have opinion on adoption when u already have a biological child.I was blessed with a child after a lot of difficulties 4 years ago.Now want to have a sibling for her.I enjoy the process of parenting and always thought i will have 2 kids.However i am unable to have another child naturally so am thinking of adoption.
So the question is is it fair on both children if i adopt?. will the adopted child always feel she/he does not really belong to us(even though we love her/him).Will our biological child be able to get along with the adopted child?
If anybody has any views/experience on this please let me know.Thanks in advance!
Regards
Subscribe to this conversation Reply Anonymously

 

2005-09-28
#1
Anonymous Name: Anjali Viegas
Subject:  question on adoption



A child that is brought up by parents who accept them for all their differences will not know the difference between being adopted or being biological. The biggest part of parenting is TRUST. If both your children either biological or adopted know that you will be there for them no matter what happens, they will trust you selflessly. The only thing that would be unfair to both the children is if they are not made aware that one is bilogical or one is adopted. The fact that you are comfortable with this concept both children will be comfortable too.

( Just insight as I am an older Indian adoptee and a social worker placing children in adoption)
Reply to Original MessageReply to Original Message   Reply to Original Message Reply to This Message   Msg Objection   Go to Top

 
2006-12-13
#2
Anonymous Name: prc
Subject:  please help



Hi,
We want to adopt a 3+yr old girl child.v r based in hyderabad. our son is 7yr old. kindly help from where to start?here in hyderabad things r not at all co-operative and many scandals already happened here.So doubtful.please help
Msg Objection   Go to Top

 
2006-05-23
#3
Anonymous Name: Lakshmi
Subject:  Help required



Hi,

I´ m helping my sister find a baby girl for adoption.
Incase you could help us in this regard, we would be happy.
Msg Objection   Go to Top

All tips on Planning a Baby
You ever wanted in one place.
No need to go anywhere else.
& Answers to Topic :
question on adoption


Subscribe to this conversation! All tips on Planning a Baby
You ever wanted in one place.
No need to go anywhere else.
& Answers to Topic :
question on adoption


Subscribe to this conversation! All tips on Planning a Baby
You ever wanted in one place.
No need to go anywhere else.
& Answers to Topic :
question on adoption

Thanks for subscribing
You are already a member, please login to subscribe

------ OR ------

Expecting Parents
Parents of Babies
Last 7 Posts of this Board
How to register business in business registration?
Hey there! Hope you're all doing great! I'm looking for the assistance of an agency that could help me with my business registration. I'm looking forward to a partnership business registration since I am on the verge of opening a foodstuff trading partner with my friend in Ontario. On searching for more details regarding this, I came across business registration Ontario[/u... - Olivia Benjamin [View Message]
RE:Want to adopt an Indian chile less than 1 year
I can help you with this mam, as I am willing to give my new born baby!... - Khan [View Message]
RE:need a partner for adopting a baby
I can spend life with u if u give a chance
... - Raj [View Message]
RE:Adoption | Wish to adopt | Boy/Girl | Mumbai/Thane
Hi i want to help u and i will be happy to help you... - Piya [View Message]
RE:Single women adoption
Hi can we talk ... - Roni [View Message]
adoption
Hi i am from mumbai and i want give my unborn baby for adoption i am serching a prents who are really need a baby to complete family ... - Piya [View Message]
RE:Single women adoption
Hi plz contact t me u r still interested to adopt a unborn baby... - Priya [View Message]