hi all,
1st of all i would like to congratulate all of u.motherhood is a blessing. enjoy every moment of it...
i´ m actually from TTC board. sorry for posting my query here, but just thought u all are the best to advice me on this issue.
we are married for 4 years & i´ m 26 yrs old. we started TTC from past 5 months.i have never been to any gyn for any kind of check up till now.today i got my periods & i´ m very depressed about it.as u all have gone through this phase & now out of it successfully i need ur suggestion on how to go abt it.is it normal to fail for 5 months or does this indicate i have some fertility problem?should i consult a gyn now or shld i wait? plz, help me. any advice from u will be highly appreciated.plz if u all have any good tips on incresing the chnaces of conception, plz let me know. thank u all so much in advance. hope to receive ur help... asra shaheen replied. hi. i ahve been thru the same situation, but i conceived by god' s grace in my 2nd cycle from the time i was ttc.what you can do is calculate ur ovulation time. and try to have intercourse a day before you ovulate or exactly on the day. ovulation also depends upon your period cycle. so check ur cycle length and then from the expected day of your next period deduct 14 days and that will be your ovulation day. a woman is normally fertile for 4 days including the day of ovulation(this day being the last fertile day)as the egg stays only for 12 hrs and then disintegrates. try having intercourse during those days or if you still have doubts.. have intercourse every alternate day from cycle day9 until you get ur next period.this was what i did.and also DONT WORRY AND ALWAYS BE POSITIVE