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Hi, hope this could help many of the members or prospective members. Having a kid before marriage is still treated as sin in our country. This reservation about the concept could some how safeguard human values. But, there could be situations where a person willingly or unwillingly subjects to sex, consequently a child. It depends upon a person whether a kid before or without marriage is wanted or unwanted. Purpose of this topic lies in the fact that if any person wants to have a kid without a wedlock and do not want to go for a painful exercise of abortion. I appreciate more posts as to opinions, suggestions on this topic. Members can also provide information about Organisations (Non-profit motive or Profit motive)which take care of such persons during the period of later stages of pregnancy to child birth, maintain confidentiality, do not harm the morality of the person inolved. Anticipating a healthy discussion.
Maestro Advisor replied. It is up to an individual on whether they want a wedlock or not before they decide on a kid. It still very important for the kid to be regularly ( every-day or every week) cared by the other parent dpending on whether the parents live together or seperately. It is very important for the kid' s upbringing to have a mom and dad. If the circumstances are such that it can not be guaranteed, ex: rape or accidental pregnancy where you have no choice then you should have the courage to find a doula or mothers helper to help you go through the process until the baby is at least 6 months or so. you should continue to date and find a suitable match to make your family complete.