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this is what my sister in law did to me. I had very long beautiful hair well past my waist. I use to get it trimmed (with slight feathercut in the front)in a trusted beauty parlor. One day my sister in law offered that she would trim my hair. Though I never allowed anybody except my mother and parlor lady to touch my hair till then, I yielded on the advice of my mother in law, who said that she use to get her trimmed by her daughter. She started with wet hair and combed it. I did not expect any sinister design, but suddenly I realised that she is cutting just below my nape. I felt light and immediately asked her to stop. by that time, she has cut off more than one third of thick hair at the base. so I had to ask her to complete the cut. in the guise of levelling, she did it further up ending as a untidy bob. Feeling irritated I complained to my husband and mother in law. they did not say any thing to my sister in law but asked me to go for a tonsure if I dont like the cut. In a fit of anger, I went to my mothers place and proceeded to Tirumala to get my head shaved. After offering my hair there, I am really contemplating what to do now? I am the only one who can use net in this home. SO what ever I write here, they can not know. What shold I do? I am thinking of cutting her hair in the night.tell me $$$$$ er replied. i know how do u feel after ur trimming.and in fit of anger u get ur hair chopped in god place .why dont u chop ur anger there.will u feel happy after chopping hairs of ur sis in law and u get ur hair back.if yes, go for it. hero replied. its 100% true to cut her hair bcoz she did it to u

when she sleeps on one side take scissors (sharp) and silently without any dist cut her hair down and dont leave it there take with u as a memory
or giv her slepin pills and shave her whole head with zero cut razor sathish j replied. hai sis am new to this site i had seen ur embrrasing moment.u don' t worry. she will lose her hair in her husband home. other wise u plan better to shave her hair off. once again u go bald and show that u r great. then if u get chance shave her total hair without any problem from ur side. take care sis Ram Singh replied. It is really sad that your waist long hair was cut off by scheming sis-in-law. Tonsure should be done in a happ frame of mind, not due to such unwanted situations.
Cutting off her hair in the night will only create unnecessary tension and feud. You are one against three. You may have a sense of revenge but it will not last long. Finally you will suffer more, more anger, more feud and finally a broken marriage. No, it should not happen.
But you do not have to take it lying low. You can bide your time and manipulate things that your sis-in-law and probably m-i-l also get their heads tonsured. May be you can tonsure once more just to hide your scheme. You can act that you have forgotten the ill-episode. Then you can have a secret happiness of revenge without retribution.
Or, you can go on a strike that you will not grow your hair till sis-in-law also shaves her head. And you can get your head shaved every week as a protest.
Or, you can go on ' once only food' strike till, again s-i-l shaves her head.
Or, you can stay in your parents home and tell you husband that the price for your return is the tonsure of his sister.
Choose the one that is most appropriate. But do not do anything that will break your marriage or make things between you and m-i-l difficult beyond a point.