Sorry to post a very personal problem but I wanted to see how others are going with it.

Am not able to get intimate at all with my spouse. Have no inclination towards it all. Docs and all say its ok to have sex but i can't and am making my husband a little unhappy. Maybe it also has to contribute with me knowing that i am pregnant and i dont want to hurt anything.
How are you girls handling it.
pari replied. hi!!
therez nothing wrong in asking such a question. u can stimulate him manually with ur hands while hugging and kissing him. that should give him good pleasure. its good to get intimate during pregnancy and its ok if u dont want sex. but there are other ways of satisfying him. u dont have to say no.
we are doing the same. everyone feels the same at this time.
hope this helps.
take care,
pari. MomToBe replied. Thanks for replying. I felt very awkward posting this.
My husband is very understanding but just that I feel bad when i say no. I feel so lucky to have him as my husband and i feel lil bad to not been in the mood. I always feels its much more difficult for Dads where nothing is going on in their bodies and they have to adjust to this huge change.
archie replied. MomToBe
It's normal to face no sex drive or enhanced sex drive, either are fine.
If you don't have sex drive due to elevating hormones you don't need to thrive for the same. There are many things you both could enjoy, throw some romantic dinner, music, foreplay, and touching and sensational things. Just sleeping with silence, talk to your spouse and let him know he isn't alone not getting enough of sex during prenancy there are many couples around the town and probably several hundred thousand in whole world suffering. I am sure he will understand it.

Archie Manu replied. hi, same problem is with me, i also dnt feel comfortable...but in this case my husband understands me and tried to avoid...i think this problems comes with every preg women...i also felt bad when i say no... but.. v cant handle it...so dnt worry...