Hi all you stay-at-home moms,

we, the SAHMs are supposed to have enuff time to take care of the baby as well as the house, but I never seem to have time even to write a mssg out here except when Anushka is sleeping. She is constantly seeking attention and wants me to play with her all the time, or atleast be in the same room as hers.

Are any of you facing the same problem? Hats off to the working moms!!!!!

Regards,
Sheetal Hetal replied. i agree with bhairavi.its very true. staying home 24x7 and taking care of baby is tiring. when we go out a while atleast we get a change with things around..at home its kind of tirring,,,yeah we feel good that we are with kids all the time,,but still i experienced that when all of sudden i was told to sit home and take rest by my doc.
things are better in takin care of nirja, i have to say, all neighbours around having their kids around,,someone or the other often drops by or will keep their kid at my place or i will do the same,,if we want to go out for a while for ne express shopping or sometimes in saloon. even if thre are more than a couple kids playing at my place,,,all are busy playing eachother,unless they end up snatching eachothers toys :))
also if they are playing nicely i grab a small nap in the same room where they are playing....
so its better,i badly need rest now..
when i was in kansas,i was hardly able to get any rest.just like what mentioned by sheetal and priti.its tough that way..

sheetal,hows anuska doing,its been a while we talked...my love to her.
take care,
hetal Bhairavi replied. I agree with you Sheetal.. I think being a Stay at Home Mom is a very demanding job. Physically, its very tiring; Mentally, its overwhelming sometimes.. Its very difficult to play the role of a mother and wife all the time.. I mean, you do need some time for yourself too.. and that is something that we SAHM dont get.. At the same time, our kids are definitely more demanding when they see us around, and you cant ignore them too.. I think, the only time I get rest is when I sleep..:)

But at the same time, it has its bonuses also... dont u think? I wudnt trade anything in this world for the childhood of my baby. I am able to enjoy each and every moment of it, and I just love it..:). Just wondering, from next year, after I get my H1 sponsored and start working, how will I cope with the separation from my baby.:(

take care,
Bhairavi. preeti. replied. ha ha..sheetal..u know same is the sitaution here..he is sleeping then i got time here n on ither side have to preapre lunch too..exactly the same case is here sumtyimes i shout on him also n that pls beta play by ur self n he will watch my face n shouts bak on me..gosh preeti. replied. o yes..sheetal same goes with me too..sumtimes i m fed up..i cant do anything..when he sleeps then only gets sum time ..n that too quickly gets over as day by day his naps r getting small n that too only twice in a day, no time to visit IP also he dont let me sit on Pc also he cums n wana play with keybpoards ,rolls over mouse ..will do wahtevr i'll do..will not allow me to b in kitchen too he starts pushing me when i'll go there..oph..but now i'm feeling ok that others kids r doing the same:) i'm not alone on the board ha ha..well i guess they live alone gets bored therfore wan our attention so that gets sum comapny when i take hime outiside ..he dont care for me at all so nicely he will play n gets busy in watching out eniv.. thats all for now lets c what other r saying. tke cre .love to anushka.