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i m married for 8 years and have 2 kids. my husband is not the kind i expected to live my life with. he is 10 years elder to me and very introvert and simple. i never met him before marriage but as my parents wanted me to get married i did that for there happiness. I always relied on some friends to discuss my day to day things as he was not interested in listening or blame me for everything. he has some very old notions in him for wives. recently at work place i met a person who is totally like me...and a great friend. we started talking on phone and he got very attached. we used to call and chat on sms very frequently. he was also married bgt not happy. then he went to usa and somehow his wife got hold of her phn bills with my number on it everywhere. she told my husband about it and he simply said he trust me. i know i did wrong and his this behavior totally brought me back in my family life. i started respecting him in all new way but in my friends life nothing is ok now...his wife keeps on attacking him for this and threten him with divorce. i am feeling guilty that because of me this is all happening. if i would have controlled my feelings then nothing of this sort would have started. can i do anything to make my friend life normal. i dont want any disturbance from his wife now in my life....i feel very sad guilty distreesed all the time and pray for everything to get better.
Please answer. I am getting into a suicidal zone and want to get rid of everything. Manav Verma replied. Hi mrs singh
i read ur comment nd realise u r happy with ur married life but not happy with ur husband for physical love dn obviously thats why u were attract to ur friend as u sad to share ur feelings but he is also married nd he had problems wid his wife but u cnt do anything now for him.....i suggest u yo try or share these loveable feelings to a unmarried or single person like me....nd be happy in ur life varun replied. hi we are couple we can be your friend hemant replied. Hey you can talk to your friends wife if you want. make her understand that she needs to trust his husband... by not trusting him, she will surely loose him.. Sameer replied. Hey dear R ! My condition is as same as urs. My wife is also very introvert. Infact u cant imagine that we have a least talk with each other. We talk once or twice in a week. Pls contact me on my yahu.cm id and it is sammy.mcool ajay replied. Just think now yr life is very happy with yr huby, kahte hai samay sare Zkham waquat ke saath mita deta hai. aap kuchh dino ke liye apne so called friend se doori banalijiye saan theek ho jaye ga.u think + only + other wise apne sath saath kaye jindgiyan Barbad kar do ge aap. Just think +. Apne mitra ko 1 saal ke liye bhool jaiye saab theek ho jaye ga