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I am frustrated by some parents motivation on adoption.Simply they are saying that looking for fair child.Dear parents please note that the infertility problem is moving very speed. Try to understand and get your child as early as possible. Arunachalam , chennai
rajeev replied. hello arun
i do agree with you in these days people are doing late marriage and planning for family it is leading to fertility problems only so it would be for the people to get baby earlier in lives. kiran replied. hello arun,
i agree with your decision because fertility increases lot, i do not understand people adopt children because they do not have them again why do you chose the children based on color and races. Joe replied. Hi Arun, even today i dont understand why are people bothered with color. You dont bother at all i would say as you are going to grow the baby and its your decision to think not their. NN replied. I think people are very racist and they think fair people are the only ones who are beautiful which is not the case. Everyone is pretty no matter what their skin colour is and this is something we need to learn. NN replied. Every parent has a mindset how they want their kid to be and everyone deserves to try for what they hope and wish for. But it is also wrong of them to be racist in choosing a baby to adopt as they all are the same. Ritu replied. We are said to have the richest culture but we judge people on their skin colour. What does this describe about us and our thinking. All babies are a gift that have the potential to fill your life with happiness. No Name replied. Hello Arun,
I do agree with you in these days people are doing late marriages and planning for family it is leading to fertility problems only so it would be better for the people to get baby earlier in their lives. Nikki replied. Hello Arun Technocrat,
I agree with your opinion because fertility increases a lot. I do not understand people adopt children because they do not have them again why do you chose the children based on color and races. Instead do not adopt the children. NN replied. Hello Arun,
Adoption is best one given to the kids. That will be helpful for kids who do not has parents. While adopting why do you check for fair and everything please do not get addicted to such activities. ppk replied. adopting a child is good but expecting a fair child is very childish our country better move on from fairism. please note that there are child who need your help and please stop racism. Gaurang Mishra replied. Very Tru! It is a sad state of affairs beauty is after all skin deep. How does it matter if the child is dark?!