hey hetal i just happen to read your post to arti. you never shared all this in our group. this is not fair. its been 2 years with our group, why didnt you share.
you know i was wondering why we always had lots of support and warmth from you.now i understood why. and what sonal said is very true about you, you are the first person that even i have met who feels so strong being a woman. even though you were similar to my age you were able to see things that we couldnt see. but now my surprises are gone.
i have seen some mothers who really dont care about others babies milestones.some dont even care to help you out if your baby is lagging behind instead they keep singing their own songs to show how smart they are. and some dont appreciate your giving help to them.and there are others who would give you all sweet support and tell you never to worry about your child growth, except you.
you have always made us run after our kids and take care of them in better way. i have always found alot of support from you and there is no wonder why my baby learned crawling and standing at your place., now if by his 10thmonth next week, he doesnt learn walking, i will be coming to your place :) looks like he has decided to learn things from you only.
now i understood what has made you this. i hope something like that would have happen to me and i would come to that maturity level.i feel sometimes that i am too young to take care of kids or family.
also the way you supported supriya,seema was something that we didnt expect. people mostly dont care about how wrong you are going, but they are ready to give tons of advices and show all the kind and warm feelings to you.but your case is different. i remember very well in supriya case you scolded her badly, she felt very bad that day. but after couple days, he realized that it was her mistake and she corrected it.i have to say that your analysis was to the point and results are seen. after 4months, she is happy today.
dont you get headache when you answer me or in our group. i am amazed by the level of frustrations you are able to able to absorb. i also remember sometimes you venting out :)
everyone throws all their ventings on you and you answer them very calmly and they get all their things cleared.after reading your post to arti, now all my amazements and surprises are gone. no wonder why you are able to do all this with your lifestyle.i am very lucky to have known you and made you my friend.
please be always there for us.
i have a complaint for you, you didnt share all this with us. i am raising this issue to our group. let everyone know about this. why didnt you share all this.its been 2 years hetal.not fair at all.i am hurt with this. Diya replied. you say that you wish that what happened to hetal in her past would happen to you so that you become mature??!! strange i would never wish death on my mother for me to be mature. what happened to hetal in her childhood ws very sad and can bring alot of insecurities a mother is necessary for all child you should know that now you are a mother. life and experience make you mature like responsilbilities being a mother also brings maturity now you are not a girl but a woman a mother a wife etc etc etc. Please dont wish that for yourself as that is the toughest thing hetal had to face!
Priya Priya replied. Everyone lives their life differently. you can earn from here. Just because it says hetals name ion the title doeant mean only hetal will read! everyone takes a look at posts here. Please introduce yourself to us. seems like you are new here or are you an old member with diff name.
Priya Sudha replied. Hi,

I am not so regular on the board but happened to read Hetal post on Arti' reply. Hats off to Hetal (before even reading this as I have seen her couple or more posts on child upbringing) but at the same time I am not in complain mode. It is totally her own decision to share her life with us or not. Whenver she felt comfortable she did it.

Take care,
Sudha