Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi, we are in Bangalore, we registered in adoption india website (in Dec' 12)and were provided with Shishu mandir as the centre to approach. They told us that they will do the home study and collection of documents whenever a child is available for adoption. I received a call from the centre few days back stating, they' ve a child for adoption. When we approached them there was some compatibility (child and us) issue. We couldn' t go forward. Now when I checked the adoption india website, I am unable to log in. When clicked for forgot password its showing application rejected. Please let us know why this has happened, because its a life time bond with a child and us and not a picture for few hours. Is it mandatory to take the child shown to us?, they didn' t even do any home study or document collection which we were ready to give on the date of registration jiya replied. hello DH,
always keep in mind that before adiption of kid, its important to research on that adoption center. so take things in mind to check reviews of this adoption center. kimaya replied. hello DH,
the process of adoption and system of adoption is little easier of that adoption center, atleast make sure that kid will match you both parents for sure, so take care of these things. shambala replied. hello DH,
there is good thought for adoption of child, these adoption center not follow any proper leagal formalities and papers too, and in real way they need to follow all this formalities. apurva replied. hello DH,
there is adoption center in banglore, they conduct a adoption organization, and they adopt child with less formalities, they need only all legal papers related to adoption formalities. rupam replied. hello DH,
you should give some time to adopted child and take time for yourself too, to create bonding with both, everything is new for you and your kid too, it will take time to adjsut. NN replied. As for now you guys are unknown to him and it will take a lil time for him to know both of you and digest the fact that you are now his parents. Talk to him about why he is no comfortable or what are the problems he is having. Ashna replied. Give some time to the child and yourself for the bonding. Everything is very new for him and it will take him a lot of time to adjust with everyone. If you think there is something strange then try contacting them. Sona replied. Hi DH, its always important to do a lot of research before you choose a adoption center. is your problem solved now: Amol replied. Hello DH,
Definitely god will help you and all your problems will get finished so that there will not be any problem in your lives i wish you would get what ever you want and it will be done in your life also. Barun replied. Hello DH,
You had good thought for adoption of child, i think they are not having any proper approach and formalities they need to follow. It is better you move to other adoption centers where they can help you for adoption of child. chris replied. Hi, Very sorry to hear this. I have contact with an organization in Bangalore where you can adopt a baby with less formalities and lesser time. if you are still interested, please contact me. Shanker replied. Hi, Very sorry to hear this. Our BIL had the same in Bangalore and finally decided to go with a sperm donor. The process & system is little easier. So, why don't you give a try for egg or a sperm donor first..atleast the kid will match you or your wife for sure. Let me know if you require further details on this thread. I will enquire. Thank you.